第二早，我們又繼續聊。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRJz97mQuiO
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZMforMNDBQ
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy56cnzWZXk
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG5FIJVF9gu
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB4xA8qU6jX
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS7IwenGQKT
相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ77X1CHEAHT
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0CPTYIWwXN
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9kTINl7MKV
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO1gAa5x3v7
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVSxM7sl4dW
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHJfIIRJdLv
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQDc2MQJ9P4
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhlY2lFcLvy
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAH5VLNBoVb
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMvJrbsnOzR
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKJJd0xu6fa
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡykpx6Ms6Cp
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡATdmxd6iiV
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrpcsj8DUAa
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMjORTkKZvb
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHmBxEIR3gi
Annie：不過我不敢苟同592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbx2JmYEufJ
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpN4Mung8vx
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡESstcRVAsj
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUcken8Dwqc
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWY1HCq6D2N
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1x0e5sJe4U
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjxQrErBdyy
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqxoB5G0xDq
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9VQ6YhXfMm
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7me33QNQu9
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbnKSxZd3d4
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOH6h2RSBb6
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPTXPsriv0N
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6oxkcVqdPi
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqYvBMdSoIH
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd7GLD41OBq
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIqtEUuqiVb
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUAZbdibNUy
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7uRpTRcIJe
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCPjDw9ya11
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRvcEuTavIl
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYLqnfpahcf
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZBBUBQbFPK
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpcVp24I4Cg
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJTHMO5LeCJ
唉，我都知來不及了。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5ghfFYt7PD
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Annie：下？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0a7Lnd30C2
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmagstxF4pi
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcTrrK8u5MX
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl3lvzWRHYR
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlov0YndjDA
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSaMg6zO6GH
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj9OrPHrSY9
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9Du0LsTMQQ
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRhlHacYeif
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBKQjUt4pOr
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvCbCqvOO2n
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLJvIboW1xe
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6rFkKHZbd2
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1lgD5q90ap
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnJwbWWge4f
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQdfTwgdH6D
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡr0GTxek1u9
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡulm4vI6RhZ
我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCkMDoX2cIe
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUSZlcuAFL6
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlO025QwSdT
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnzZKx6cggT
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ30UnmkVnih
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憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAzdngAifWb
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGVVRY1yFoI
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ95VM5EV73G
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS6Zu3lVTDx
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBEfgTdss1o
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ26kROrkJN
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5O3ZZV3PEX
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdknhYjpzpE
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6R9t0I8alF
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjXddfh10cn
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcNm8l5IiKA
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfVtVkQD97F
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfUsctg9lnA
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡm4EtVThz5h
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ18Q9j95uor
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSfRbTkpUCF
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8o9yAI4jQO
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡs3jqfESwEY
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmAH1IXvZ9j
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJU2qk5A42K
（陰陰嘴笑）592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡV3gGcrnWD6
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSQKT7VBNw1
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2LF8QO1bzn
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSwWOfLGUBn
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiRXhRp0iEm
我：屌佢老味！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHPl1CKMxUZ
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjAKra2vLvv
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGZrQRbFlNs
Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1K2T0IR3Op
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWynywA5CFg
我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡifOxERNnDg
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0MMFmLUOtw
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhiHwnLg3sv
（微笑地說）592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPpPDw7Y81J
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCpNQ3UXa2U
我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHPDgeOP7oK
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKcueD0aG57
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1jUcNPmZWl
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeHCcoegqMl
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPJdbu8IHDm
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwgA4egdE4Z
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFI7BTzRxAl
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZSEfVFC1R4
（暗笑一聲）592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdzg01q5zln
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3EIytHh0XI
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYqGdQpJ6Ub
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKWJaqUkgDn
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8MPjAQoA9T
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfk8abrfR1X
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9rjaGYmvFZ
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfn7UpQlfSP
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡC8Yn3RFvGX
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY79VV87ihJ
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZCuSSkvvfV
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGC5sxNZlmK
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9MiRUq6LNK
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSNKW6N5ntJ
592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2IH03oPW0J
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkvaW5sZ0m5
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYCMmyHZ5xy
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1gGgAP4AMh
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。592Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLuOIrdjmTi
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好了，繼續找下個吧。8964 copyright protection588ＰＥＮＡＮＡbAadUx6BMM 維尼

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