第二早，我們又繼續聊。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkVyiYiGXor
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzU6X6TnRsG
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmTjMQDfRkV
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡimGPAQUFat
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9D9ITNSDeG
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBUH1B1w9sq
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsFNlnIB4je
Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnCoCCWlmhD
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj3m6YHdqAL
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkaPvEelkDz
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3H0VkjcXp7
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkH5i77rEld
Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡv9xtnrnxSs
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvPiOqBhnXO
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ89YmmpZVue
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡByfnTbl7hb
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9GTRznSYQg
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNv9f9nPi8a
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvRxfuX24MW
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkbxHho2JVm
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnmPITqkdmu
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi8oDBAeHC9
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB41krDh6KE
Annie：不過我不敢苟同629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ86w2JGds9O
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrugHhpQvYK
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhdJpeGbh7S
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNVhA4Auqss
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡke5Df92rjw
Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSPdUBbWcCy
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡByAYYxPFqq
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtO5bXya7II
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBoA6MFBcPv
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsRBsliy7uN
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLNLR8FVYT5
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNrEmHKoka4
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ779gcVemqQ
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRPIA2Piho6
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡArJLZoRWDp
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmV8b9LYl9F
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMApoa1SkPq
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3HF2fV2tvY
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6gcYCbto7Q
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj45zd9AuLb
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvM153rhh1n
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVtIKvUJ2TV
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCtNaAnm9Hz
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxJtCjxrb4i
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp8wG40AaVF
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxB4PL69sN2
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEkZWaAirOP
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唉，我都知來不及了。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBgz8f9Ihrl
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjm0KpJGpiC
Annie：下？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlRRVVKvodZ
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP2aol5AEcB
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe3AL1aQPA1
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbJWoepGRd2
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡg51BvnEpxd
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwwaMbal05K
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQTUbjXEcXe
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8YxRuqHDWg
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlmjbHHFeFl
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTruMjMYdCu
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVx9SQoq4y4
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0kblZeo1ld
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDMqzCggFsl
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEwKsHHCQhC
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjMVGe2Uf6G
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS4Pgm2x4To
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGFffyvsrpx
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpEaBGVKLXB
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNV6sR4Yc7Y
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSzL6A3BUxK
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡISbPg5vpTL
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY2g1t1SIP0
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJxwmaHsj7w
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhWJgNrK38S
Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡms9ASjW71J
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqiIbpCfOgu
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKZIGSqaSVq
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVIAmLapqNL
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡETT4rdrGYk
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUKRWNCC6tQ
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5cX8fM1h5E
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTNM1QmxSuq
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3ySm6pmRFp
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡN8dSwl3uaY
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdhlkJzKkbz
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ6aSClnFp1
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrVvkTxg7cM
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPYRZL6jrrF
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡk2AvsIm7l1
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqJIdwmTyiM
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrthRRkxBWh
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi2D4mPLWHw
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa8Jpl0eJnr
（陰陰嘴笑）629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6xzuEhNKd9
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDFyGph9zWZ
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJY6dIpEB78
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAPEQG3JD7q
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我：屌佢老味！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVfE9MLmwV6
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHTIoZW9cn3
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡq5lq5VvbdQ
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlkKJu3eBC7
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSL1SNcBjQV
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSwp0QQ1qn4
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl52L0h3Itn
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡutW6MFxc1L
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtYn08oVGjf
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLwW54KlqFT
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我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeU87zr9Wq1
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnSMPwU2Wf7
（暗笑一聲）629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1VMwgCXSSO
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjT2T3hSYHe
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnHsxuSqKYY
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經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEO9Ajv68M5
629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaGXwQjVac6
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ99bfkFWfK4
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事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡilyWJhzvzM
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLQB4HQtSVB
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKI6jgGTkcq
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現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlzLYS5xvqQ
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiKUYJw9rTe
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人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ55grH9O4YV
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrJj1IQvIsk
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcttooDeQYC
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。629Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYNv3usfzsh
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好了，繼續找下個吧。8964 copyright protection625ＰＥＮＡＮＡTQvxCKzGDO 維尼

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