第二早，我們又繼續聊。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1VvI0gh7JY
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhV3ly4XSHX
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdy6B00GPqb
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt29acuAR2d
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlXxSx1ij8I
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9XERgFr1UC
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe3n0vkKy13
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmWTqiSmEW9
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpKQIBUAcgh
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZgpRqVHeJc
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8wmm4TgPsz
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHOOLsCuV2W
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY2HfIEHAGt
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBbJLXO1g3S
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbPndQXbwld
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我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTy1AbYw0Wg
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZj4JM84zRw
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWXlE3f70VB
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Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE6aaf8YeNd
Annie：不過我不敢苟同570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIGroKrS4lb
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0PNOZpS6JQ
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTmAJCTfBpS
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDYR9grqKbY
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTTpS1ilTmZ
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzlj2f71t1U
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmgz8KLkHHz
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXS5s9S0yJ2
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMVxSGoBUpI
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsfm41bAhyE
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡobKe5dzeIW
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4jyjgXqdJD
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡc24Qf9WNVa
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ17mEW0K7nT
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0CeBWbIlkF
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrV3ICg2CZU
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPXz0yDtkcb
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡasYokscjv4
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmMsmHsZF9l
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXFm5e8UVO1
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO0IAGVyBm2
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡe92iec6EOE
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唉，我都知來不及了。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsQ2uBOsXz0
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Annie：下？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwnXO54CKcq
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWOiyw7xTCG
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXUrTXNQuAG
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8FCOj2DFXE
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLAUY4cwxG9
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyH05AKEJp7
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyhkO0LibVF
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQnBekpOrz5
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIk6DmFJexV
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0CHtjzDzjW
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQ66WzMtYId
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqRtJsTtWN3
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPFL35Qeof8
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhy5WXgHY0H
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSjj0EzwTLb
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjzwITRs8MV
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBTBXsKPjLf
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjFq2znxzh9
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSDGiPhUkJa
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBLW3JnxhFR
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡepRUUUjbs6
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡW73uLby4Px
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8NHyrlJTiN
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我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMTaplG24Sh
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心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2vUQ49CsPw
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRdv2ZtPEGt
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1crhPbglhe
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdd9lTGMR55
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxzqNaMo7Az
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5PPm9aY7rP
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Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBlKqTjUjwK
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我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIJh3EzDdUz
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡW6zgZJG5y3
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeSkzfi8Uvg
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcJsdWTvl43
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj8Kap1evAC
（陰陰嘴笑）570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPcT0yba2NV
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWW5xQv1dnN
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZMo8jL8PLv
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOg5Bj67EWV
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我：屌佢老味！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQygUIlcghk
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡA6J0ZfbXgN
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhg7ZkjkQ4y
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnxbrvPglXc
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcZ2bwzR0LW
（微笑地說）570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjLpw61ueSI
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡb8KhuSDmUG
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbFzMUvrmeH
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8JawHUXQT3
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvUhqXnmlKD
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJO8g0NTbn0
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMBkg1XRbqm
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKGWdE1dRSe
（暗笑一聲）570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYHsm7ryVZS
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdIOMqv0uAt
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcz3Wd59D0N
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經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNYVJ8jOtw4
570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQQPpSWw24T
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIXetj2W7Vp
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事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtIjK6OP3Av
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTGdoqwrkzF
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmy2Yipbr5r
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現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVjGZWLGX7L
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡICjGJSvjgx
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人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkJOpai12a8
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGTxYBbtwSl
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuw35aaKJqS
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。570Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHNnfmb7q2g
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好了，繼續找下個吧。8964 copyright protection566ＰＥＮＡＮＡHRQ49LDWD9 維尼

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