Give it your all! Give it everything you have!

...Is advice that sounds pretty nice, but I realized today it's advice I can't give you in good conscience.

I don't update my stories too often cause the truth is that I don't write too often anymore. Over the summer I started focusing a lot more on my music... But even as I write this I find my goals have changed. 

I've been spending a lot more time at the gym lately, working on physical goals. I've been concentrating on my studies a lot more, reading and working. I've been going on a lot more dates lately, and spending time trying to get better with women... But I haven't fully devoted myself to any of these things.

I call myself a writer, because I enjoy writing and I think I've been improving pretty steadily. Same thing with music, I can identify as a musician. I don't quite identify as a bodybuilder or a seducer yet, but I suppose those labels may be coming soon. There's not one singular aspect of my identity that defines me, however.

The point is: I've never been the type to fully devote myself to anything, body and soul. I think I value my freedom too much, I never want to get stuck in any sort of a rut. I'm not particularly single minded, and while I find that I'm pretty good at a lot of things I don't really consider myself a master of any.

Of course, don't take this the wrong way. I'm not advocating mediocrity, not by a longshot. In fact, I'm not advocating anything in particular. The point I'm trying to get across? You have to find what works for you! It's all about what your goals are, what are you trying to improve? (Cause you sure as hell had better be trying to improve.)

One of my biggest things has been to make progress every day. I have my goals, and every single day I do something to get closer to them. It's true, my goals tend to fluctuate. But what remains constant is my forward progress. If I don't write, I make some music. I lift four or five or six days a week, but if I take a rest day then I go talk to a girl. Sometimes I cook something new. Sometimes I work on a new business model I've been toying with.

The bottom line? Progress. Every day you see me I can promise you I will be better than I was the day before.

Find what works for you, but don't waste any time. We only have so much of it, time is precious. Every day that you don't get better is a wasted day, it's a day that you get worse.

So do something about it!

Have a wonderful night folks;)