如果有人對你說了帶有歧視意味的話,第一件事不是吵架,而是先保持冷靜。
你可以先說:
I don’t think that comment is appropriate.53Please respect copyright.PENANA8EEdalc4ZB
我不認為那句話合適。
或者:
That comment made me uncomfortable.53Please respect copyright.PENANArZcoGxzpjM
那句話讓我覺得不舒服。
如果你想更直接一點,可以說:
That sounded discriminatory.53Please respect copyright.PENANAvy6WUWH6Oo
那聽起來帶有歧視意味。
如果對方說「我只是開玩笑」,你可以回答:
I understand you may have meant it as a joke, but it was not appropriate.53Please respect copyright.PENANAWzmmRV0ZNI
我明白你可能只是開玩笑,但那並不合適。
這句很好用,因為它沒有馬上把對方逼到牆角,但也清楚指出界線。
如果對方繼續說不恰當的話,可以說:
Please don’t speak to me like that.53Please respect copyright.PENANAj1Ilb0FcgN
請不要那樣跟我說話。
或者:
I would like you to stop making comments like that.53Please respect copyright.PENANAnEAJu1rZSJ
我希望你不要再說這類話。
如果情況發生在工作場所,可以說:
I would like to report this incident.53Please respect copyright.PENANAtrvkxDbHtA
我想報告這件事。
如果是在學校,可以說:
I would like to speak to student support about this.53Please respect copyright.PENANAjaNAUfZMm4
我想就這件事跟學生支援部門談談。
如果你感到不安全,最重要的是先離開現場:
I don’t feel safe. I’m going to leave now.53Please respect copyright.PENANAFYCwEmxlAK
我覺得不安全。我現在要離開。
遇到歧視時,不需要用更難聽的話反擊。真正有力量的回應,往往是冷靜、清楚,讓對方知道:你聽懂了,也不接受。
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