
十一、分岔 (序)97Please respect copyright.PENANA8Apl53Fa3T
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,97Please respect copyright.PENANAVqxSECp66H
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:97Please respect copyright.PENANAaz2W3kEKWg
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,97Please respect copyright.PENANAbS9SzLMTmu
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),97Please respect copyright.PENANAYXtmfOgeuU
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:97Please respect copyright.PENANAWsHTJi2CA1
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,97Please respect copyright.PENANA7fkKRjWM75
半分苦頭也不想要」97Please respect copyright.PENANA3yne2iQl6u
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,97Please respect copyright.PENANAkUmZcsuinE
這作者恐怕不知道,97Please respect copyright.PENANAHM7G65OQVG
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。97Please respect copyright.PENANAtLFMJXmp6r
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,97Please respect copyright.PENANA1IOylt3QtI
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。97Please respect copyright.PENANAdSxxs8g9KX
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,97Please respect copyright.PENANAZp5hh34NYD
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?97Please respect copyright.PENANACxObSeXJNX
又或者,97Please respect copyright.PENANA5HOjJZ3FQ8
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,97Please respect copyright.PENANAODwo7zj9JD
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?97Please respect copyright.PENANAzpFLRe8jYv
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而且,97Please respect copyright.PENANAXHibNGrT1P
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,97Please respect copyright.PENANA3rgdcZYgPZ
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。97Please respect copyright.PENANAMc1gnSZsDI
叫足這「三個餸」的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAvlOFUy0Hqi
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,97Please respect copyright.PENANAqv49aUHM3G
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。97Please respect copyright.PENANAx5bk2Ete9t
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,97Please respect copyright.PENANAzSRLZc2rl8
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。97Please respect copyright.PENANAvV26WNw5ew
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,97Please respect copyright.PENANAZ5T9qv55z9
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。97Please respect copyright.PENANABPUsb3fk5C
但,97Please respect copyright.PENANAkFT43o0U2r
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,97Please respect copyright.PENANAomxj0ZZa40
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAaNJygw8D7Q
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。97Please respect copyright.PENANAdo0YgnfyNv
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,97Please respect copyright.PENANAaxooNjgwW1
是兩個完全不同的概念。97Please respect copyright.PENANAACRME5cr4U
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAvoZKQlIjHV
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,97Please respect copyright.PENANASLaPeUPyfE
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。97Please respect copyright.PENANAQY6uP94RF4
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,97Please respect copyright.PENANAwJOPRxKT79
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,97Please respect copyright.PENANAp1crZdMlOJ
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。97Please respect copyright.PENANA35HafsKpSo
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。97Please respect copyright.PENANAO1cJr7uHXl
除了錢,97Please respect copyright.PENANAWXJ1hNpY4p
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,97Please respect copyright.PENANAZ1YBLi0DzJ
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。97Please respect copyright.PENANA4thGwMnfaG
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,97Please respect copyright.PENANALTu1iuybLs
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,97Please respect copyright.PENANAwljc4pw9BO
感情更加要預留空間。97Please respect copyright.PENANA42IrArKVW5
97Please respect copyright.PENANAKlyjQyWmeD
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》97Please respect copyright.PENANAd41uqdYxhF
戀愛心理,第十一回。97Please respect copyright.PENANAtIt5kzNFss