不知不覺已經玩了超過一個月Tinder,以我的偽娘身份,引來不少男生對我swipe。645Please respect copyright.PENANAPMfSWgwDek
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我彷彿成為了女神,而這群男生彷彿是來應徵當「兵」;不過,我只收女兵。645Please respect copyright.PENANAI3Uwt4lftZ
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我抱著「提升自己跟異性的溝通能力」的心態match了不少女生;但同時,也換來一些令我感到沉悶的人。645Please respect copyright.PENANA10HwTAd8Yr
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上集提及的Gini是其中一例,而除了她,我還遇過有些什至只談了一會,便使我沒有動力再談下去的人,然後任由其聊天室沾上塵埃。645Please respect copyright.PENANA5m0zyow0s6
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用app久了,人會麻木,起初雄心勃勃,希望能提升自己跟異性的溝通能力;但時間久了,那種雄心也漸薄;尤其遇上令我沒有興趣的人,會不如當初遇到Susan和Annie的時候,那麼主動地邀請她出來見面。645Please respect copyright.PENANA2L7R8jK3Lb
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有些女生,不是她對我已讀不回,就是我對她已讀不回,因為彼此都找不到共同話題。645Please respect copyright.PENANAr6h2XgOx5A
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有一些女生,match了之後完全不會跟人談話;有些女生,match了之後又把我unmatch。645Please respect copyright.PENANAlcmIOIJMQ4
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「Hi」有時候,我什至毫無幹勁地拋出這句開場白,但總是換來別人的已讀不回。645Please respect copyright.PENANAe431kc65Zh
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有些得而復失的match,我推測:是她隨便、漁翁撒網地swipe一大堆人,然後巧合地match上我之後,發覺我不是她的理想對象時,又unmatch我。645Please respect copyright.PENANAt6q0dChcmV
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除了Tinder之外,我還用過Heymandi。645Please respect copyright.PENANA3ZKgRYqhSt
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在這裡,別人match了我之後還是會聊一段相當長的時間;但一般都是聊不過一天,人就消失於雲霧之中,再怎樣也找不到。645Please respect copyright.PENANAhJAFnzJ8wN
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總結來講,這些人不會與人深交,正正反映出交友app的生態。645Please respect copyright.PENANA5fsWXkyvzN
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從我經驗得出:有些人只因為心靈空虛,所以渴望從中解脫。例如只找人聊聊天、刷存在感。當他們得到心靈上的解脫後,根本毫無意欲去跟人有進一步的關係發展,純粹消磨彼此的時間。645Please respect copyright.PENANAt0vBy8nQWR
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至於有人說:有些女生為了「收兵」,故意抬高自己的價值,存心玩弄人,例如match之後故意不回覆你的信息。這點我就不敢妄下定論了。645Please respect copyright.PENANA104KlRAcEq
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一向靠相片包裝的我,Heymandi此乎不是我的戰場。645Please respect copyright.PENANADXZzC1Wvcf
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在交友app上,很多人都會對人說「純聊天、純交朋友」,表面看似不會在此結識戀人;但我個人認為,愈是這樣說的人,其實愈是潛在的發展機會。645Please respect copyright.PENANAbhtqxCCZ3m
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也許有些人真的是純粹來消磨時間,但同時有些真正來交友的人,都會以此說話作包裝。在成為男女朋友之前,都不是首先由交朋友開始嗎?645Please respect copyright.PENANAbb9lTRkiPo
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「你係bi?我係女仔喎。」804Please respect copyright.PENANAmwhug1HIj4
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談到我給女生的第一印象,如果你認為她們都懷疑我是gay,那就大錯特錯了;其實她們都覺得我是雙性戀。804Please respect copyright.PENANAzjqTFYpgFM
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不知不覺玩交友已經1.5個月,根據我的非精密統計,當女生知道我是偽娘身份後,經常問我的是:你是否雙性戀?804Please respect copyright.PENANAcKVrwxGOPg
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可能這是因為我又愛女性裝扮,又去找女生聊天,所以才讓她們有這樣的假設;不過無所謂,有誤會澄清就好。804Please respect copyright.PENANAGeNKAMqt1P
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因此,曾經有朋友說我在「扮gay食女」,這種說法是不準確的;與其說我是「扮gay食女」,倒不如說我是「扮bi」804Please respect copyright.PENANAAXB4eLTHG0
,什至我連扮「bi」也不是,我只是純粹的「扮女」。804Please respect copyright.PENANAkAHfDph7Gh
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也許有人妄想「扮gay食女」,所以我也要澄清,此路不通。804Please respect copyright.PENANA7p9t2Vlxbc
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以我所知,gay的人通常女人緣都很好,但是這不代表有很大機會交到女生。804Please respect copyright.PENANAUy3Yp66kfM
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真正異性戀的女生,你以為她們分不清楚什麼是朋友,什麼是戀人嗎?你以為她們的敏感神經,感受不出同性戀、異性戀的人嗎?804Please respect copyright.PENANAALqTF9jcg8
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而我的情況就是比較怪;儘管有不少女生仍然感受我是直男,但仍有很多女生對我的第一印象是——雙性戀。804Please respect copyright.PENANAkrPPXhROH0
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有人會問:偽娘能交到女朋友嗎?804Please respect copyright.PENANAPTrDmu1GAK
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我只能說見仁見智,難以一概而論。一般來說,偽娘的戀愛市場都是面對雙性戀或泛性戀的女生,或者變性人(不知什麼是泛性戀請自行Google)。804Please respect copyright.PENANA5XFJGK36ED
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至於在異性戀女生裡,偽娘有沒有市場,就真的見仁見智;因為主要視乎以下兩點:804Please respect copyright.PENANAaELg85gkjR
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首先,你是否扮得美麗?(這個「美麗」,不只是形容你在女裝時候的樣子,亦廣義地包括你在日常男裝時,是否給人型男的形象。)804Please respect copyright.PENANAlYdhbtE5zL
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人總是愛美麗的事物,愈美麗才會愈吸引人的目光。在女裝時,當然不能不修邊幅,像周星馳電影裡的茹花就⋯⋯804Please respect copyright.PENANAoP1ipXOOKs
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男裝時亦然,公道地說,你是男神,去到哪都會吸引女生;你是宅男,去到哪都交不到女生。804Please respect copyright.PENANAhgVYfmL37m
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尤其在這個性別議題漸漸思想開放的年代,愈來愈多的偽娘出現,我深知這會使會使得「偽娘」眨值;所以在卸妝後的我,也不忘要成為一個「男神」,繼續增值自己。804Please respect copyright.PENANA5pmwereTou
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其次,就是視乎你和心儀女生對「偽娘」的定位在哪?804Please respect copyright.PENANAe4M3BDrkUf
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所謂定位,就指你是純粹把它當作興趣?還是把它視作你性別認同的一種?以及,女生是否理解和接受你。804Please respect copyright.PENANAUr4k2ECMSw
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對絕大部份的異性戀女生來說,通常頂多只接受作為興趣的層面,終歸都希望你能穿男裝,看看你的英俊樣子。804Please respect copyright.PENANAuRrhr4Vq7i
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在Tinder上左滑右滑,一個濃妝艷抹、及肩短髮的女生出現在我眼前。804Please respect copyright.PENANA3XMLaErbn8
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一張奪目的大頭照,不禁使我好奇地按進她的個人檔案;她也是雙性戀,很會化妝,經常以不同的妝容示人,衣服穿得比較中性,但很時尚向藝術化,身上也有紋身。804Please respect copyright.PENANAwkYrXoHYY3
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想想我上載的照片,雖然是cosplay,但也是以不同樣子示人,有:本人日常男裝照、宇智波鼬cosplay照、美好世界維茲cosplay照、JK服、一張在我聖誕節時的日常女裝照,和三點式泳裝照。804Please respect copyright.PENANAnSSwntgL0u
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於是,我對她十分有興趣,直接送她一個「super like」。804Please respect copyright.PENANAqcZ4TXrm3y
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