The GREAT Blog Of Rants - Why Do Women Like Bad Boys

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And yes, I wrote women because I'm not a girl. I'm grown up. *flips hair*

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But seriously, WHY do we females like the "bad boys"?

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Some of you might say, well duh, they're hot.

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Yeah, I figured that, but what makes us really attracted to them?

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I don't know...I honestly don't know.

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Maybe it's the fact that they all have this mysterious aura around them, or maybe it's because of the leather jackets--yes I'm being stereotypical here--combat boots and expensive motorcycles...Or maybe it's because they smoke weed and get drunk.

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I had to say that.

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I don't know, do bad boys like getting drunk?

Personally, I have never--like never--met a bad boy. Sure, I've seen guys on motorcycles, but once they take off their helmet, they're suddenly 60 year old men. I've seen guys who are quiet, sit at the back of the class, glare at everyone--but that's because they're in a bad mood-- 'cause the next thing you know, they're off dancing with their friends and jumping over rainbows.

ANYWAY, back to the bad boy question.

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Why are we attracted to them?

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This part is taken from the Internet:

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"Conventional wisdom maintains that women should beware of men who say and do the right thing with too much ease."

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Why? WHY do we find them so appealing?

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Apparently, because of their increased level of sexual success.

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Another thing of the internet:

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From Carole Lieberman, M.D, clinical psychiatrist and author of Bad Boys: How We Love Them, How to Live with Them, When to Leave Them:

"The main reason women are attracted to bad boys is because of the relationship they had with their fathers, when they were little girls, that made them feel unlovable, not good enough to attract a prince. So they end up kissing a lot of frogs. Other issues play a part, but the main fundamental, underlying, most important issue is their relationship with their dads."

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Really? Well...Ok then.

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Anyhow, some of the main reasons--besides from ones stated on top, is:

1- Great sex: you all know what that is.

2- The challenge: changing the bad boy.

3- The thrill: doing something against the norm.

4- They have THE reputation: if you know what I mean.

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But seriously, there's lots more. And all of us girls have a type. However, take a look at this.

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Bottom line: It's all about the Nice Guy. Nice Guys don't finish last... they just make sure the woman comes first.

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I honestly don't know who to choose...Nice guy or bad boy?

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Huh, guess I'm going to stay single forever.

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But who would YOU choose?

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I guess 16 year old me did her research. I've never genuinely been into "bad boy". I enjoyed the thought of them, but if a bad boy asked me out, I'd reject him.

I'd also reject a guy who claims he's a "nice guy". People, a word of advice: if a guy refers to himself as a "nice guy", then he's not one. Stay the fuck away from them.

Anyway, it took a lot of years, but my type of guy is one with a stable life. One who's compassionate; who enjoys life because I don't; who plays minecraft and blushes a lot; and, who has a radiant smile and sparkly eyes.

I don't think those fit in the bad boy or nice guy sterotype, but that's okay. Unfortunately though, I haven't met a person like that. That's why I'm still single :(

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