「係!係好大男人嗰隻。」我都直接咁答佢。376Please respect copyright.PENANAG5qBm9rlwQ
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「咁你一定要幫我,我想改咗佢。」從佢眼神流露咗堅定嘅眼神,咁我都要盡全力幫佢。376Please respect copyright.PENANAXIPDCmhiFi
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「你真係、真係唔好嬲,我真心想為你好嘅。」我都再重申一次我嘅出發點。376Please respect copyright.PENANA4YLINCVfAv
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「即管踐踏我啦!我準備好㗎喇!」376Please respect copyright.PENANAfhVDUfa0qH
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你嘅大男人性格令到其他人有啲討厭嘅感覺,好多時候我行我素,唔聽其他人嘅意見,作為一個男人,擁有自己嘅意見、堅持自己嘅原則係好重要,但你而家嘅身份除咗係男人之外,你仲要負上「男朋友」嘅責任。376Please respect copyright.PENANAjna6ouwroA
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你要好清楚你而家係兩個人嘅生活,唔係你自己一個人拍拖。Wendy亦都唔係你嘅隨從,你哋兩個人都係一個獨立嘅個體,有自己嘅價值觀,有自己嘅興趣同諗法。376Please respect copyright.PENANAdk1VN99cM3
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摩擦好易就因為呢啲小衝突而發生,遠至談論未來人生路向,近至今晚晚餐食咩,呢啲衝突往往導致關係變差。我知道男人好要面,永遠唔想做低頭嗰個,但你要知道,喺你身邊嘅佢有可能係你終身伴侶,如果連食咩都要嘈一餐嘅時候,你心就會諗:到底佢係咪真係適合我?376Please respect copyright.PENANATJeSbDYg3s
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有時意見不合咪退後一步,讓下佢,就下佢嘅意見囉。你都要尊重人哋㗎嘛!一段長嘅關係唔係要一方盲目跟從,而係要互相遷就,咁樣段關係先可以長久兼舒服。376Please respect copyright.PENANA9m2Ij8T3ii
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[頑強性格,帶來更重災禍。]376Please respect copyright.PENANAx4gV92PhG0
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我聽Wendy講,分咗手之後你死纏難打,成日去佢公司接佢收工,要佢做你樹窿。「分離從來不易,這個妳我早已知」,人哋都講到咁白咪學識分手啦!兩個人嘅感情就好似有條線,一個即使拉到好實,另一個完全放鬆,呢條線都唔會連繫到對方,你要知道呢條感情線已經完結咗,再唔會連繫對方,你再緊握,傷害嘅只係你哋嘅關係,持續咁癡纏只會令到人哋再討厭你。376Please respect copyright.PENANAdlVTbSsC5r
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不過有樣嘢你要感恩,就係Wendy冇繼續討厭你,佢不斷俾機會你改過,永遠等你有一日改過自身,因為佢都好愛你。不過,如果你仲鍾意佢嘅,你有樣嘢一定要做,呢樣嘢需要好大勇氣,你敢唔敢做?376Please respect copyright.PENANAQaVr9uN4Yk
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「敢!只要可以同佢一齊返,我乜都願意。」確定過Ryan嘅眼神,我都好放心Wendy嘅幸福。376Please respect copyright.PENANAGvIDmbUcn9
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呢個大問題就係你阿媽,你阿媽成日講埋啲侮辱性嘅說話令到Wendy聽到之後好唔開心,我知道你要同你阿媽講佢嘅缺點,你會覺得自己係好不孝,作為人哋個仔唔應該提出自己阿媽嘅錯處,因為你覺得阿媽做咩凡事都啱,永遠淨係聽阿媽講,有咩事都聽阿媽嘅意見。376Please respect copyright.PENANA1uy1uouGDf
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但如果你真係想再同Wendy一齊嘅話,你真係要捨棄你多年嚟永遠尊敬阿媽嘅觀點。喺你耳中,你會覺得你阿媽講嘅說話其實係一個開玩笑,不過喺旁人耳中就覺得好傷害,正所謂「講者無心,聽者有意」,始終你阿媽講到Wendy好差咁,又話拜金女,痴埋你係為你啲錢。事實到底係咪真係咁呢?咁得你一個自己知,我唔知佢到底同我講嘅嘢係咪真實,但我係相信Wendy講嘅情況係真,我亦都相信你可以正面同你阿媽提出呢個問題嘅。376Please respect copyright.PENANAcWyf2BnTrQ
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我要講嘅嘢都講晒,你有冇嘢要講?376Please respect copyright.PENANAJLo6PZSMoO
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「基本上都冇嘅,我真係好多謝你,如果冇你嘅意見,我都唔知自己做得咁差,就好似『裙腳仔』咁。」Ryan連忙咁多謝我。376Please respect copyright.PENANAajJJ8jXsAO
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「其實你習慣咗有阿媽嘅陪伴,凡事都問阿媽,永遠都用阿媽嘅意見作為答案,但你已經唔再係一個細路仔,而係一個有思考、有批判性嘅人。」雖然啱先嘅一段長篇大論都係講佢,不過都係講多次好,費事佢聰明過頭聽唔明白。376Please respect copyright.PENANAvAip1XKXnk
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「我明白嘅,我會盡力改變我自己,唔會令佢對我再失望嘅。」Ryan咁講,我都放心晒,冇辜負Wendy對佢嘅期望。376Please respect copyright.PENANAC8CvlNaYJt
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「好多謝你特登抽空聽自己嘅問題,希望你之後可以改變自己、改變你阿媽嘅態度,最後祝你哋可以成功復合啦!」話後,我就行去門口開門送客。376Please respect copyright.PENANAq3wiAcnY6z
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「承你貴言,如果我第時成功追返Wendy,一定要請你食飯。」Ryan欣喜咁同我講,不過我相信佢可以嘅。376Please respect copyright.PENANAVE7pMYahvJ
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「咁我恭敬不如從命喇!」我自己都好想可以見到佢哋可以復合,始終兩個都相愛對方,但當中嘅小問題影響兩位嘅感情,不過經過啱先嘅對話之後,呢啲少問題都迎刃而解啦!376Please respect copyright.PENANAhMdG90wpUj
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件事過咗幾個月之後,我收到嚟至Ryan嘅WhatsApp,相入面有兩個人,而呢兩個人就係Ryan同Wendy手拖手去北極睇北極光。376Please respect copyright.PENANA23YPltJaVA
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「賤人,我餐飯呢?」我厚面皮咁問。376Please respect copyright.PENANAtXw9Zenbj5
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「屎就有你份食。」Ryan趣緻咁覆。376Please respect copyright.PENANAa5ZAecpiEg
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嗰日完咗見面後,我亦都同Ryan做咗朋友,我哋成日約出嚟飲住啤酒傾「男人經」,每次嘅見面都睇到佢嘅進步,一次比一次進步,每次都漸漸脫離「裙腳仔」、「大男人」呢啲負面嘅暱稱,一步一步成為一個好男人。376Please respect copyright.PENANAySj7FTREV0
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前度超渡師嘅唔工作唔係淨係要事主放棄佢嘅前度,而係超渡前度,忘記前度,不論係前度嘅性格、前度嘅行為定前度嘅陋習。376Please respect copyright.PENANA2x1cRqwxnu
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而Ryan就係前度嘅陋習,喺對話中,Wendy都一直冇話要決絕「斬纜」,搵得我講Ryan嘅問題就係想由第三者去解決呢個問題。第一次望見Ryan,我亦都覺得佢係一個可造之材,佢係一個好仔嚟,不過未有一個人同佢講佢嘅問題啫。376Please respect copyright.PENANAnIQSSbIO26
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由前度再次成為正印,咪就係超渡前度嘅缺點囉!我喺故事嘅開頭都曾經講過,我唔可以改變當事人嘅過去,但我可以改變嘅就係佢哋嘅未來。376Please respect copyright.PENANAtwCgQDSwfi
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而家我咪改變到佢哋嘅未來,等佢哋重新上路,重新認識對方,而今次嘅超渡我覺得係非常之成功嘅!376Please respect copyright.PENANAc9DyQ1SNE2
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(待續 To be continued)376Please respect copyright.PENANAONHqGWmBRY
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