總有時候,責鬧,亦不過是因為深愛。288Please respect copyright.PENANA7EurYPCIJc
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「你係咪又唔記得左我講過嘅野?我講過話唔比你飲洒,呢個係我嘅底線來。」男生語氣開始有點差了。288Please respect copyright.PENANAZhXmlVgDhS
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「我都只係飲左一啖仔,有咩問題?洗唔洗甘惡啊。」女孩因為聚會氛圍而「貪玩」呷了一啖而己,卻沒有想到男生有如此大的反應,她駁道。288Please respect copyright.PENANAiWEnENOOnu
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我問男生,為什麼他不能讓女生沾一滴酒,他給了我一個理由作答覆。原來,他不想女孩因喝洒而喝到醉了,他害怕女孩會因此會「不安全」,或許會被別個「撩走」、或許會被別個「抽水」、或許會被別個「執屍」,男生擔心種種「或許」,他不想女生「出事」,他不想他的女孩會有什麼不安全的情況,他想保護女孩,所以他以「滴洒不沾」作為自己伴侶的底線。當伴侶一不覺意觸碰到男生的「底線」,他會毫不留情地去責罵。只因,他想警醒女孩,不要再有下一次的「犯錯」,更絕不容許。
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而女孩不忿,不忿作為他的女孩,理應是被他疼愛的,但男生卻竟把她罵得「狗血淋頭」似的,這算甚麼?她不過只是呷了一少啖而己,他就這樣將此無限放大,這還怎樣有信心能一起繼續走下去?她擔憂。288Please respect copyright.PENANANl4jOTNqE2
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你說誰對誰錯呢?對我而言,兩方都沒有錯。288Please respect copyright.PENANAPQ8vzd6AKZ
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男方亦不過是着緊女孩,而藉此以另一種方法去告知女孩,望她能謹記,責罵,源自深愛;女方亦不過是因聚會氛圍而呷了一少啖而己,男孩需要那麼大的反應嗎?女生無奈。說實話,每一次的吵架,雙方都沒有錯的。勉強要說的話,錯的,便是雙方。288Please respect copyright.PENANAob5VRtjips
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愛情,兩隻字,兩個人。若然吵鬧,大多都會是一方是想得太多,另一方是想得太少,一方想得太過理性,另一方想得太過感性。他們有錯嗎?實是沒有。288Please respect copyright.PENANATXoPsObfBu
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源自愛的責罵,又有錯嗎?沒有。288Please respect copyright.PENANAEOKVTECSA8
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然而,會否有更好的方式呢?同時也會否稍作放寬你的「規則」呢?而另一方又是否會加以謹記對方的「規則」呢?會否在「觸碰」對方的「底線」時先問準對方呢?
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「唔得,我唔會退後,一滴都唔得。」男生依舊沒有任何動搖。288Please respect copyright.PENANArC3wRkvZ21
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「我點解要比佢甘樣管住?甘同坐獄有咩分別?」女生如是。288Please respect copyright.PENANAz3dLnOKXUJ
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我不禁嘆了一口氣。其實,解決問題是如此的簡單,只不過是我們都想得太過複雜而己。只是兩人走的步伐不一致而己,一個走太前,一個走太後,只要一個退後一步,一個多走一步不就行了嗎?這,也不過是「一步」,雙方的「一步」罷了。288Please respect copyright.PENANAZT7uHKMuqb
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問題是雙方的,解決亦是雙方。總不能那麼自私的叫對方獨自的退後兩步或是走前兩步吧。288Please respect copyright.PENANA4zERQJdIpp
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男生,我明白你的責鬧來自於愛,但女生的心靈可是如此的脆弱,反而會弄巧反拙的。你都否過是想她多記住你的「底線」,其實,我想經過這次她會記着的了,總用不着要繼續的罵吧。有時冷靜下來的刮白,或者總會比情感操縱着的話語,更記於心中。還有,凡事總有放寬的空間的,「絕對」二字,或不會存在在愛情之中,有時的放寬,更能令雙方都能擁有一個更舒服的相處。288Please respect copyright.PENANAM6YpbQRfgV
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「但人總是貪心的,我想她更好。」男生說道。288Please respect copyright.PENANAeL0dSesVRn
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誠然,貪心是人性,但你又有否想過,貪心,會將她束縛得更緊,緊得……讓她喘不過氣來的?當然,喘不過氣的人,還有自己。說過了,愛情,總是雙方的,受傷亦是。有時,拳頭握得緊了,不妨放開一下,不是叫你完全放開,只不過是稍放鬆下而己。288Please respect copyright.PENANAnDDTb7uicR
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女生,那你就多謹記他的「底線」吧,你要知道,他的責罵也不過是愛你而己。或者,在下次先得他的允許吧。288Please respect copyright.PENANAeBO8gbVXDl
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其實我覺得責鬧是一個不好的行為來的,只因,責罵這個行為,會有責罵人的人,還有被責罵的人,這是一個單向的行為。288Please respect copyright.PENANAuGk62K5Dj2
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長氣的我又要再說一次了,始終,愛情總是雙方的,嘻。288Please respect copyright.PENANAc4wE4bLUi7
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將責鬧變作「溝通」,或者大家都會比較舒服點呢。