有冇覺得有時一個人好悶?想人陪?
冇?
咁有冇試過係街見到啲人一班班,一對對嘅時候,覺得自己格格不入,想搵個窿捐呢?
點都試過下啩。其實吹雪我自己覺得好多人想拍拖,「R friend」都係想避免咁嘅畫面啫。但係你又有冇諗過,其實一個人都可以享受生活呢?
首先,要係到提提你,我唔係叫你自己一個人冇朋友,唔拍拖,lonely forever~ 而係叫你:不如試下去享受一個人嘅時間。有啲人睇到呢到大概會話:一個人又點享受啊? 咁你不如諗下你一個人嗰陣係點過?我肯定十個有八個都係:睇下手機囉!然後第九個應該係:打下機囉!
咁,大家又會唔會試下放低所有嘢然後欣賞身邊嘅事物呢?好簡單,你有幾耐朝頭早返工返學踏出𨋢門嗰陣個頭唔係耷低咗而係望緊四周唔同嘅人與物?唔係話望巴士小巴站有冇車洗唔洗追喎!係屋苑出面棵樹啲葉有冇黃咗綠咗,對面舖頭老細睇落今日精唔精神,隔籬七仔個兼職今日有冇返。呢啲聽落好似好冇關痛癢,但係學識欣賞身邊每一件事物,自然就會係一個人嘅時候,發現好多身邊嘅小細節。唔信嘅,試吓。多啲感受下身邊嘅嘢,或者,你對好多事物都會有唔同睇法。老實講,學識欣賞係一門講就易做好難嘅學問。吹雪我自己都係到努力緊去學,但至少我依家會因為欣賞身邊事物,而感到開心:)
You should never be lonely As there’s always something around you As company But have you ever noticed their existence?
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