書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹449Please respect copyright.PENANAkfYIYM6oWz
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。449Please respect copyright.PENANA5G2RassJf2
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」449Please respect copyright.PENANAYjWxjsqNAj
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。449Please respect copyright.PENANAEfkWTJ8f8X
這要有多壓抑?449Please respect copyright.PENANAlUtrT1PZhb
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。449Please respect copyright.PENANA7g0tudwdnx
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?449Please respect copyright.PENANAQf30alPftm
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 449Please respect copyright.PENANAI4gwCtQKQo
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?449Please respect copyright.PENANAdnz0wvQkOh
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。449Please respect copyright.PENANAfeaPi0LFCq
責任不單單只在一環。449Please respect copyright.PENANAo7Tfr7WV0A
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;449Please respect copyright.PENANAvVbYYKeXE8
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;449Please respect copyright.PENANA3d6f9WsN4r
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 449Please respect copyright.PENANA3Rgfu2538K
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。449Please respect copyright.PENANAopPCBq6iUS
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。449Please respect copyright.PENANAiUN7riRV7D
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?449Please respect copyright.PENANAqEL6qXlXiR
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 449Please respect copyright.PENANAYAoM2JrESt
一刻?一年?半輩子?449Please respect copyright.PENANAjP0n1zPqYT
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?449Please respect copyright.PENANAogz6OM36oQ
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。449Please respect copyright.PENANAEtWt8uThCv
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。449Please respect copyright.PENANATxA9lCyZX3
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 449Please respect copyright.PENANAD9i9UTyWgE
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。449Please respect copyright.PENANAPWhio1GhHn