楊斌 -《我唔識拍拖》
詞/曲:三爺 編:沒有資料 唱:楊斌
再度與她尋覓自由489Please respect copyright.PENANA9ZlVEKPE1v
發現我心新的傷口489Please respect copyright.PENANA0Se63Ee38n
怕你仍內疚 我衷心的禱告489Please respect copyright.PENANARdsdkZSoX9
苦戀的一生 偏要自渡下半生
是我未夠好總參不透489Please respect copyright.PENANA8iu6yHPA2w
換轉別個他你怎捨得他走489Please respect copyright.PENANAmzm7IPR5ab
錯又犯錯 竟可將他擁抱489Please respect copyright.PENANAchaF5xQMyY
不想懂太多 偏愛你沒法拖
*對不起 我又叫座489Please respect copyright.PENANA9qEisKxwgO
請原諒我這次衝動489Please respect copyright.PENANAmQci5Fngq1
這顆心 最後愛過489Please respect copyright.PENANAJCOS67zfUH
即使得不到你 唯有衷心的說句
我唔識拍拖 分開好過489Please respect copyright.PENANA9rvs68EiaU
來來回回怎麼只得一個我489Please respect copyright.PENANArbMI89Bs7q
回望過去你背著我與他相愛 489Please respect copyright.PENANAFViVC8Vd1K
即使粉身碎骨 亦要愛你沒法躲
拍拖 不知怎過489Please respect copyright.PENANAPNcbTRDVaI
沉沉迷迷怎麼分不清哪個是我489Please respect copyright.PENANATrFUdmkaul
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你489Please respect copyright.PENANAPs4OLDzkj6
直到最後至清楚*
原來是我錯
重唱*
以往讓你傷害我 拋不低 是真心過489Please respect copyright.PENANAifsAsr4bJi
痛切心扉離開我 直覺告訴我結果
我唔識拍拖 分開好過489Please respect copyright.PENANA2X4y8RGMZc
來來回回怎麼只得一個我489Please respect copyright.PENANA8yJw1boPgH
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你489Please respect copyright.PENANAm5re7WrtSJ
直到最後至清楚 原來是我錯
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「以下是劇場版對白,下方的括號內容為自翻的書面語。」
男:點解要咁對我啊?489Please respect copyright.PENANAZVKCDf72lw
(為甚麼要這樣對待我啊?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAm4eRCPzhZz
女:我點解唔可以咁對你啊?489Please respect copyright.PENANAfnbh8FhJOM
(我為甚麼不可以這樣對待你啊?)489Please respect copyright.PENANA4kBBXo2QC4
男:你有冇當過我係你男朋友啊?489Please respect copyright.PENANAT85vDPjXsz
(你有沒有把我當作是你的男朋友啊?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAR5KxgADytR
女:咁你呢?489Please respect copyright.PENANAmVye0tRqpC
(那你呢?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAkTtKjp3aoS
你成日話愛我,但你識咗我咁耐,489Please respect copyright.PENANA9voo1H7KmD
(你老在說愛我,但你認識我那麼久了,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAC3wj9VZCGl
有冇陪過我睇過一齣戲?489Please respect copyright.PENANAMaX7XqbsIe
(有沒有陪我看過一場電影?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAl8mv4Cr7Sg
有無同我行過一次街?489Please respect copyright.PENANAn9gmKcfSc1
(有沒有陪逛過一次街?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAXA9LYRCGEF
我有無要求過你啲乜呀?489Please respect copyright.PENANARBgMa7m3jG
(我有對你要求過甚麼嗎?)
女:你想講,喱啲就係你既拍拖方式吖嘛。489Please respect copyright.PENANAN409idhJTz
(你想說,這就是你的交往方式吧。)489Please respect copyright.PENANA6DNjDuQzri
夠喇!我受夠喇!489Please respect copyright.PENANAxxFPkbiOHk
(好了!我受不了啦!)489Please respect copyright.PENANAX7KBsLeIwb
睇嚟,你真係要學下點拍拖囉!489Please respect copyright.PENANAplSQiLg4DA
(看來,你真的要學一下要怎樣去與人交往!)489Please respect copyright.PENANA01ePplyhmC
你再咁落去嘅話,一世都搵唔到女朋友㗎!489Please respect copyright.PENANA3kXfsZQQnV
(你再這樣下去的話,一生都找不到女朋友的!)489Please respect copyright.PENANA3XxKDe6Byb
男:我哋一齊咁多年喇,489Please respect copyright.PENANAR55OYRuYOf
(我們一起這麼多年了,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAeI4yJn2uJf
你唔係唔知我係點架!489Please respect copyright.PENANA2hOW030BkF
(你不是不知道我是怎麼樣的人!)489Please respect copyright.PENANA4DRUs0NqyE
我就算幾忙都好,489Please respect copyright.PENANAD5zlUL2thE
(我就算多忙也好,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAocMQXHxYCb
我個心都係喺你嗰度㗎!489Please respect copyright.PENANA0UMT1kafQd
(我的心都是在你那邊的!)489Please respect copyright.PENANAsw8DaAsWfD
你粒聲都唔出就背住我同第二個一齊,489Please respect copyright.PENANAZ6kVisjU8h
(你一聲不哼就背住我跟別人在一起,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAydJwUuVZqu
你有無諗過我感受呀?489Please respect copyright.PENANAFXCQvcSyhN
(你有想過我的感受嗎?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAqGMtoutfj5
女:係啊,我哋一齊已經好多年,489Please respect copyright.PENANAvztRNU5Das
(對啊,我們一起已經很多年,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAyOAfHu0f8Q
咁多年以嚟,我啲Firend陪我仲多過你陪我,489Please respect copyright.PENANA08xRSYlPdV
(這麼多年來,我的朋友陪我還比你陪我多,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAhQ0UPcdv80
有你咁做男朋友嘅咩?489Please respect copyright.PENANAeenmbswLIM
(有你這樣當男朋友的嗎?)
女:女人到底要嘅係乜野,你究竟知唔知啊?489Please respect copyright.PENANAo5oKP332WL
(女人到底要的是甚麼,你究竟知道嗎?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAY0ghSin14W
你咁叫拍拖咩?489Please respect copyright.PENANAZ5v1tTOrcd
(你這樣也叫交往嗎?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAAZfuNsYYbq
男:但我……我咁辛苦係為咗乜嘢啊?489Please respect copyright.PENANAzrR9cPVbml
(但我……我那麼辛苦是為了甚麼啊?)489Please respect copyright.PENANAPvk85RLQln
我係為咗我地以後可以過得更加舒服啲咋!489Please respect copyright.PENANAZkS56EXGHL
(我是為了我們以後可以過得更加舒服一點而已!)489Please respect copyright.PENANAw0evcZEiAy
你以為我唔辛苦咩?!489Please respect copyright.PENANAK16Uy2Hu3h
(你以為我不辛苦嗎?!)489Please respect copyright.PENANA5GxHKlAbTP
你以為我……489Please respect copyright.PENANAIQVwyNPYo7
女:夠喇!你唔駛再講咁多喇!489Please respect copyright.PENANA8rBuR0TPYW
(行啦!你不用再講那麼多啦!)489Please respect copyright.PENANAhOgNS4R4j8
我地分手啦。489Please respect copyright.PENANAA5MpM6YEik
(我們分手吧。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAF8cRLbi8zx
男:分手?!好啊!489Please respect copyright.PENANA6JvJYTpUFR
既然你覺得咁委屈,我亦都唔想勉強你!489Please respect copyright.PENANAiFZi2buKRI
(既然你覺得是那麼委屈,我亦不想勉強你!)
女:或者,分手對大家嚟講都係一種解脫;489Please respect copyright.PENANABfY0Ccszut
(或者,分手對我們來說都是一種解脫;)489Please respect copyright.PENANAvcjNpqZHXs
或者我唔係一直咁愛你嘅話,489Please respect copyright.PENANANPcWTFr9AO
(或者我不是一直那麼愛你的話,)489Please respect copyright.PENANAaF2TvROnWj
我根本唔會忍受咁耐。489Please respect copyright.PENANAkmsuWDnTiy
(我根本就不會忍受那麼久。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAFDHl5ruDth
又或者……489Please respect copyright.PENANAxDm0agEDEe
女人就係咁優柔寡斷㗎啦。489Please respect copyright.PENANA3NpEKEMJhJ
(女人就是這樣優柔寡斷的吧。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAYKvGONbFQ4
世界上邊有咁多或者吖。489Please respect copyright.PENANAigD3dtI9wr
(世界上哪有那麼多或者。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAlSjviTG7F9
女人其實好簡單;489Please respect copyright.PENANAz6TbN1Xnb2
(女人其實很簡單;)489Please respect copyright.PENANAzixX83sKj8
佢只係想搵一個能夠依靠嘅人,能夠比幸福佢嘅人。489Please respect copyright.PENANAywvehqT8eQ
(她只是想找一個能夠依靠的人,能夠給她幸福的人。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAh13qsy4fUU
其實女人,根本就係自私嘅。489Please respect copyright.PENANAeeBa2ihA4H
(其實女人,根本就是自私的。)489Please respect copyright.PENANAzfdtr46o3M
如果某一日,有一個女人要離開你,489Please respect copyright.PENANAZLPUqQVjKg
你只能夠反省下,究竟,你係咪真係唔識拍拖。489Please respect copyright.PENANAbhixAtpAzN
(你只能夠反省一下,到底,你是不是真的不懂得與人交往。)
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點滴:
我第一次聽到這首歌,大概是在O七年的年初,於某間的士高內;489Please respect copyright.PENANAh5EczXBL9B
當時聽到的是這首歌混音版。
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楊斌,是一位在廣州的電台裏工作的其中一位交通節目主持。
那個時候,這首歌很紅,幾乎每間的士高和酒吧都在不斷重播;489Please respect copyright.PENANAZ5TF4xn9sh
而分享的這個版本,是劇場版,加入兩者的對白後使其更帶感,讓人更能投入歌詞,收錄於他O八年的一張專輯內。
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歌名中的「唔識」,是粵語的白話,意思解作:不懂、不知道、不認識;489Please respect copyright.PENANAFCqD6TzqtT
而「拍拖」,即是:交往、在一起;489Please respect copyright.PENANA2av8GTcZXR
「我唔識拍拖」,顧名思義就是「我不懂得與人交往」。
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我所理解的「拍拖」,是一門高深的學問;489Please respect copyright.PENANAuSjwyc7Z2K
幻想與現實,兩者的世界總是差天共地。
於兩個人的愛情中,比較愛對方的一方,總會處於「下風」;489Please respect copyright.PENANAzJyvMRQdgD
「下風」的人,會時常擔驚受怕、疑神疑鬼,總是對自己沒自信,還會捕風捉影。
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粗心的人,往往只會看表面,卻忽略了自己可能早已在暗地裏不斷傷害著對方都不知道,一切彷彿理所當然;489Please respect copyright.PENANAiFFrT44Xr1
只要對方不說出口,他就不會察覺得到對方其實是在忍耐,因為他根本就是無意識的。
當對方超過了自己容忍的界限時,往往這段關係便會出現裂痕;489Please respect copyright.PENANAc8FEgSJJZT
直到對方認為不能或不想再忍受下去,信心崩塌、瓦解,終於,必須選擇放棄之時,那粗心的人就只會覺得莫名其妙:「我們不是好好的嗎?為甚麼如此突然的說要離開我?」
兩性關係中,溝通相當重要。
粗心者慣性的理所當然,與承受方的默然忍受亦同樣不對;489Please respect copyright.PENANApBwflCgRh7
想要該段關係得以持久,最根本的就是需要互相的體諒對方。
無論是喜抑或是惡的事情,也一定要向對方說清楚,兩者都不能理解對方的話,同床異夢,其實比起吵架還可怕。
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「拍拖」是需要雙方同時來共同維繫的;489Please respect copyright.PENANACgXQuWnVxH
過多的控訴、任性,每天也日吵夜鬧,亦只會令對方生厭。
雙方都不該是上司與下屬的關係,愛情應該是平等的,能達到平衡,才是最好的;489Please respect copyright.PENANA6x954X7I2F
適度的包容、信心,還有溝通,這些正正就是情愛中最重要的相處之道。
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人性中蘊藏著貪得無厭、變本加厲的惡念,好勝心總會使人試圖去挑戰別人的底線。
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可惜,除非兩人都是平易近人、毫無脾氣的個性,對方做任何事都無所謂,看得很開;489Please respect copyright.PENANA0RUeGK5GlI
不然,磨擦總是少不免的,皆因大家的習慣與成長背景都不一樣。
也要取其支點,需要彼此的互相包容才能支撐得到;489Please respect copyright.PENANAvriGkbaWKS
否則,翹翹板就只會一面倒,有天終究會垮下。
今天,你遷就我,明天,我忍讓你;489Please respect copyright.PENANAuvYRlyhgUS
那樣就是最理想的關係了。
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只是,世事永遠都是當局者迷;489Please respect copyright.PENANACPgmjK7lx7
要怨恨對方前,不妨先去檢討一下自己,想深一些,其實對方並沒有欠你的。
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