之後嗰幾日都冇咩特別事或者活動,我都係去幫Cathy手搞counter啲嘢,跟住有時可能喺counter度同啲同學吹水,其實大家都冇話真係去到要讀書準備升中嗰種情況。
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有一日我見到Cathy同埋晴晴一齊行過嚟,亦都係我第一次見到晴晴過嚟counter,跟住佢哋坐咗喺我對面開始傾偈。我喺度聽佢哋講嘢,間唔中加幾句咁樣,佢哋見到我好似有嘢想發表,又問吓我啲意見,咁其實我有時俾咗嘅意見又啱佢哋。
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之後嗰幾日都見到佢哋會過嚟呢度坐低吹水,咁有時思思都會過埋嚟。一個男仔對住幾個女仔好似有啲尷尬,但係佢哋冇話唔得,我又冇所謂,我都只係聽吓人地講嘢啫,又冇人介意過
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同埋一啲topic實在太吸引,例如Cathy評論緊中文老師,然後思思又喺度講英文老師都教唔到有用嘅嘢,跟住個常識老師又唔知佢點解成日喺度講佢自己嘅故事,拖住個教學進度,有時候我都加把嘴批評啲老師教得點唔好
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咁樣亦都係一個機會令我開始去更加明白(或者叫做了解)到Cathy同晴晴其實佢哋兩個係點樣嘅人:Cathy本身好多嘢講,佢都好鍾意同好踴躍去發表自己真正意見,即係唔會理話究竟個意見係咪真係一個適合場合去講?或者啲意見係咪人哋啱聽?可能得罪咗人都唔知。
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但係另一方面,晴晴就會考慮埋人地嘅感受,會因為其他人嘅面部表情或者一啲反應,去調整佢想講嘅嘢。咁樣講嘢係表達到佢嘅想法,但係佢冇得罪你,而其實個內容係你唔啱聽嘅。
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其實佢哋都有唔同嘅風格啦,我亦都開始理解到我最初想理解嘅嘢,就係晴晴究竟係個點樣嘅人,但係其實返去之前諗過嘅嘢:如果我有得喺Cathy同埋晴晴之間揀一個做伴侶,我會揀邊個呢?(唔係話真正嘅情況,只係個假設性問題)
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我會揀Cathy,因為佢始終係一個我覺得外向啲嘅人,佢係好願意去表達自己嘅思想。咁多套嘅校園小說當中都不乏浪漫愛情嘅情景,而响一段關係入邊溝通係最重要嘅,你要俾另一半知道你自己嘅諗法(長跑故事入邊就係個男仔同女仔冇溝通,所以令到男仔冇表達到佢嘅鍾意,同埋佢都唔知個女仔其實係咪鍾意佢),跟住再可能透過對話:點解想咁做?咁做咩好啊?溝通先至可以解決到一啲意見不合嘅問題,而Cathy可以表達到自己實實在在嘅諗法...
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