
十一、分岔 (序)74Please respect copyright.PENANAMJakgw20MU
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,74Please respect copyright.PENANA0vznmCzMXc
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:74Please respect copyright.PENANAaYjR1p0S0K
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,74Please respect copyright.PENANAAKqbifjC6e
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),74Please respect copyright.PENANAH1LYb0YMfF
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:74Please respect copyright.PENANAAPqy1MDDac
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,74Please respect copyright.PENANAlEnKN36qKd
半分苦頭也不想要」74Please respect copyright.PENANAyw93ruhvYa
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,74Please respect copyright.PENANAfhY23iEjd6
這作者恐怕不知道,74Please respect copyright.PENANARvct7bJWJn
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。74Please respect copyright.PENANAp5IDfNZGro
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,74Please respect copyright.PENANAN8gkxyXXRs
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。74Please respect copyright.PENANAtSal5JDrA3
74Please respect copyright.PENANArzTeqSg16J
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,74Please respect copyright.PENANAnBG64TCWdw
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?74Please respect copyright.PENANAPXtMEgdCV7
又或者,74Please respect copyright.PENANAtVbdAPxuCH
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,74Please respect copyright.PENANAldxYY6gRFg
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?74Please respect copyright.PENANA6vstfPP2Vj
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而且,74Please respect copyright.PENANA1dTFOysSzd
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,74Please respect copyright.PENANAksIDKXwkru
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。74Please respect copyright.PENANAQHlhf69jIj
叫足這「三個餸」的話,74Please respect copyright.PENANATzEDa0P3wO
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,74Please respect copyright.PENANAnHEH8ZhF10
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。74Please respect copyright.PENANAcX9C1k8FOe
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,74Please respect copyright.PENANA0Bbo9ryavO
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。74Please respect copyright.PENANARJTpLr6bld
74Please respect copyright.PENANAjLE8AQ1zz5
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,74Please respect copyright.PENANAE0HYRc5k2j
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。74Please respect copyright.PENANAos7KWBnpdk
但,74Please respect copyright.PENANAk3UeaK6y7U
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,74Please respect copyright.PENANAEHefpEKL8G
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,74Please respect copyright.PENANAm0YjnuwAQB
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。74Please respect copyright.PENANAAHRAGn7bz5
74Please respect copyright.PENANA4PreJuW9f8
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,74Please respect copyright.PENANAYWciDs5LHi
是兩個完全不同的概念。74Please respect copyright.PENANAJo5zqp2AqE
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,74Please respect copyright.PENANACwGAAK5BWR
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,74Please respect copyright.PENANAZPyukSiu6E
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。74Please respect copyright.PENANAXz4NLMAisN
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,74Please respect copyright.PENANA0OwC0lNLJO
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,74Please respect copyright.PENANAGiwhATB5ab
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。74Please respect copyright.PENANAyRD1PnUjfJ
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。74Please respect copyright.PENANAmj4ASefT1L
除了錢,74Please respect copyright.PENANAfP5UIp83SW
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,74Please respect copyright.PENANAG77Djc2ALo
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。74Please respect copyright.PENANAIUccuSCPDH
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,74Please respect copyright.PENANAG8j6r8KXL4
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,74Please respect copyright.PENANAF9mwT5Ldvi
感情更加要預留空間。74Please respect copyright.PENANA0I1FLVJ9bB
74Please respect copyright.PENANACfWmDnZcwz
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》74Please respect copyright.PENANA2SXF4mM02E
戀愛心理,第十一回。74Please respect copyright.PENANAEmaokTwMXY