
十一、分岔 (序)97Please respect copyright.PENANAUfmOyzTQ7O
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,97Please respect copyright.PENANAD16aHyxYCU
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:97Please respect copyright.PENANAFsNUZ3ASyb
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,97Please respect copyright.PENANAVLaleMeMP4
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),97Please respect copyright.PENANAN8CqUJcDjn
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:97Please respect copyright.PENANAHftHQCbkoJ
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,97Please respect copyright.PENANAt76dc4xtj5
半分苦頭也不想要」97Please respect copyright.PENANAfL8NpCeGax
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,97Please respect copyright.PENANAxfaOEyI7YU
這作者恐怕不知道,97Please respect copyright.PENANAvOSlO9jV0e
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。97Please respect copyright.PENANAd6U5e2V1Pw
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,97Please respect copyright.PENANALrJeCoFmLv
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。97Please respect copyright.PENANAZrRigD4vF8
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,97Please respect copyright.PENANAcHtlwnerg4
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?97Please respect copyright.PENANAuzmP4wPccK
又或者,97Please respect copyright.PENANA7O7bNVl0hi
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,97Please respect copyright.PENANA9LkzfTJrU2
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?97Please respect copyright.PENANAH2rYpH2y8W
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而且,97Please respect copyright.PENANAC0CekG5w6I
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,97Please respect copyright.PENANAzZQcw0OtHv
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。97Please respect copyright.PENANAlHAZJDzt2N
叫足這「三個餸」的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAuu0f5il3AW
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,97Please respect copyright.PENANAvaIzjcrG3E
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。97Please respect copyright.PENANA954reVmp1q
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,97Please respect copyright.PENANA3lUWMkJXz7
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。97Please respect copyright.PENANAKhRWuaXt74
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,97Please respect copyright.PENANAdXhHHqq6Nn
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。97Please respect copyright.PENANARXJ9W9YPLQ
但,97Please respect copyright.PENANADiVed3fVXO
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,97Please respect copyright.PENANA8VvUKJDrUr
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAHqrY6vIvOK
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。97Please respect copyright.PENANAaEuY68NyKF
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,97Please respect copyright.PENANA8IBW8ZkyNe
是兩個完全不同的概念。97Please respect copyright.PENANACCR2Rf6YD9
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,97Please respect copyright.PENANAwe1CLFnuW2
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,97Please respect copyright.PENANAnwF51gGrWc
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。97Please respect copyright.PENANAP6BwtNUj4z
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,97Please respect copyright.PENANAXx4U3tftDI
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,97Please respect copyright.PENANAviAv9RAKD8
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。97Please respect copyright.PENANAJTvQMIZcYL
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。97Please respect copyright.PENANAhdxqapQSRT
除了錢,97Please respect copyright.PENANAiO5dQWHSST
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,97Please respect copyright.PENANAFJXBKMTJjp
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。97Please respect copyright.PENANAHqGiuu02Br
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,97Please respect copyright.PENANAhHuoQ5UKsv
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,97Please respect copyright.PENANArFK5FlAUGQ
感情更加要預留空間。97Please respect copyright.PENANAFuPQlxiXPp
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》97Please respect copyright.PENANA6D3PQh9Wbd
戀愛心理,第十一回。97Please respect copyright.PENANAXHKn6xDKJq