
十一、分岔 (序)42Please respect copyright.PENANASfnO342IXn
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,42Please respect copyright.PENANAVlxm1BZz3Z
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:42Please respect copyright.PENANAVCFwgaN4qc
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,42Please respect copyright.PENANAZxU3vJfAcg
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),42Please respect copyright.PENANAEe9lITtGC1
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:42Please respect copyright.PENANA0p6TlCflDU
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,42Please respect copyright.PENANAgebmQ0yPVN
半分苦頭也不想要」42Please respect copyright.PENANA3bR6dCzLW5
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,42Please respect copyright.PENANASXfzF2Qy2h
這作者恐怕不知道,42Please respect copyright.PENANAziwPNxkQnb
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。42Please respect copyright.PENANAzot58ir9so
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,42Please respect copyright.PENANAspuYIcUPY6
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。42Please respect copyright.PENANALh7vvI5fSO
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,42Please respect copyright.PENANA7silxLUSnQ
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?42Please respect copyright.PENANAjrIRboVPUx
又或者,42Please respect copyright.PENANA2U6f8EpI5N
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,42Please respect copyright.PENANAFRb9fBqpL2
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?42Please respect copyright.PENANAAso7jozzhc
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而且,42Please respect copyright.PENANAJcoIp7b8S3
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,42Please respect copyright.PENANAEuPfOeU3x5
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。42Please respect copyright.PENANAaARglvHkXE
叫足這「三個餸」的話,42Please respect copyright.PENANAAsSUGR297I
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,42Please respect copyright.PENANAhwC2A7Dk4w
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。42Please respect copyright.PENANACF9bEbn6OB
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,42Please respect copyright.PENANAwZj64OKOpS
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。42Please respect copyright.PENANAAcqbl8EgGl
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,42Please respect copyright.PENANA3IXQ4uPbnP
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。42Please respect copyright.PENANAXyhg6VwqQb
但,42Please respect copyright.PENANAwZ3EqoZQSr
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,42Please respect copyright.PENANAP27yJJoB3o
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,42Please respect copyright.PENANAJJKsF99pG0
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。42Please respect copyright.PENANAR4yjsHAarP
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,42Please respect copyright.PENANAsLCeXJ43P1
是兩個完全不同的概念。42Please respect copyright.PENANAhPUI61tavD
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,42Please respect copyright.PENANABYPKlhncbJ
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,42Please respect copyright.PENANA1v2NG94i68
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。42Please respect copyright.PENANAKtWUWMUKLT
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,42Please respect copyright.PENANAvBC8UkqeXN
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,42Please respect copyright.PENANAyalXM71KX1
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。42Please respect copyright.PENANAfZfFvNDEtB
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。42Please respect copyright.PENANAD7j93eWa84
除了錢,42Please respect copyright.PENANAcnog6M3q7Q
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,42Please respect copyright.PENANAZ2kDiRw5TI
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。42Please respect copyright.PENANAhybikUB8hA
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,42Please respect copyright.PENANAEDuvrX4Ybf
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,42Please respect copyright.PENANALqFBTnuxsd
感情更加要預留空間。42Please respect copyright.PENANA1qXeG1xsOa
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》42Please respect copyright.PENANAKi5x8zHR21
戀愛心理,第十一回。42Please respect copyright.PENANA6hd4KEizTL