
十一、分岔 (序)112Please respect copyright.PENANAIyDG269k8o
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,112Please respect copyright.PENANAeQ6Pg0kJ0W
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:112Please respect copyright.PENANAVEb6osTUqE
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,112Please respect copyright.PENANA4C0BIIMiBq
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),112Please respect copyright.PENANAuZHsDnmceO
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:112Please respect copyright.PENANAUXlCPvdsZj
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,112Please respect copyright.PENANAUIAMxx800Q
半分苦頭也不想要」112Please respect copyright.PENANAT3gIM91wQT
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,112Please respect copyright.PENANAJjuiuvlB8N
這作者恐怕不知道,112Please respect copyright.PENANACT2qS3S0XH
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。112Please respect copyright.PENANA4pmiBZxbMO
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,112Please respect copyright.PENANA6f6J5ebz7l
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。112Please respect copyright.PENANAvsReDi7r25
112Please respect copyright.PENANAmPxYSgY7tO
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,112Please respect copyright.PENANAH7E5LhKtxr
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?112Please respect copyright.PENANAU4FDk48uvn
又或者,112Please respect copyright.PENANAys3sT6UQLA
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,112Please respect copyright.PENANAMYC2SLrbPn
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?112Please respect copyright.PENANA2Eo4nyK08k
112Please respect copyright.PENANAiSppKCYVmi
而且,112Please respect copyright.PENANAwwlVOH2TzW
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,112Please respect copyright.PENANA405qbusTd7
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。112Please respect copyright.PENANAgadPPxSgYi
叫足這「三個餸」的話,112Please respect copyright.PENANAfKZOek97ea
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,112Please respect copyright.PENANAN4VLp1FKeF
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。112Please respect copyright.PENANAF7sNc1TRAR
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,112Please respect copyright.PENANAwu3rWNe3XC
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。112Please respect copyright.PENANA2B4W7cTLJi
112Please respect copyright.PENANAkgcTZD9bPt
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,112Please respect copyright.PENANAL1MdKDAI5A
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。112Please respect copyright.PENANAnG8DG8FPb5
但,112Please respect copyright.PENANAWWVN6qkDaS
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,112Please respect copyright.PENANAujtpmrgKoX
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,112Please respect copyright.PENANAWLqqJVPWVy
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。112Please respect copyright.PENANAGRPPsI3RBW
112Please respect copyright.PENANAdlCXZV5PdB
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,112Please respect copyright.PENANAJwULSIZPrW
是兩個完全不同的概念。112Please respect copyright.PENANAW7ZNdtVbeY
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,112Please respect copyright.PENANA0kxv6QWjzc
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,112Please respect copyright.PENANARNfzWQiTzV
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。112Please respect copyright.PENANAtp8VHHF9oH
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,112Please respect copyright.PENANApkjJurWb4U
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,112Please respect copyright.PENANAe39ps504Ob
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。112Please respect copyright.PENANAWB5iy2xIfW
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。112Please respect copyright.PENANArOWMsR5ng4
除了錢,112Please respect copyright.PENANAIZ6xE0b2o4
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,112Please respect copyright.PENANAN8TxZc9o8X
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。112Please respect copyright.PENANAlOVXp5Lgrf
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,112Please respect copyright.PENANAXalK3RG6ax
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,112Please respect copyright.PENANAsXAf0woguw
感情更加要預留空間。112Please respect copyright.PENANAlpafS0w7z4
112Please respect copyright.PENANAGhPqgifW5e
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》112Please respect copyright.PENANABDJNPMmfUg
戀愛心理,第十一回。112Please respect copyright.PENANAAI4c6RjYKO