
十一、分岔 (序)84Please respect copyright.PENANAW5dcYtAWab
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,84Please respect copyright.PENANAaU9ZRVWNCL
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:84Please respect copyright.PENANAkTGQFFdKNF
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,84Please respect copyright.PENANAgj9EI9QmAD
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),84Please respect copyright.PENANAHhtkwTtw6W
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:84Please respect copyright.PENANAMdfk42oA3X
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,84Please respect copyright.PENANATTf3FPiAb4
半分苦頭也不想要」84Please respect copyright.PENANALojPIfo1Y1
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,84Please respect copyright.PENANAz85tpbu9w2
這作者恐怕不知道,84Please respect copyright.PENANAd64cusIAjO
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。84Please respect copyright.PENANAZupfhy03cX
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,84Please respect copyright.PENANAalC7McUEop
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。84Please respect copyright.PENANA0Didyy7dqg
84Please respect copyright.PENANAsOlNRGgtzP
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,84Please respect copyright.PENANACYL5BlKen6
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?84Please respect copyright.PENANA4sVUEkx92w
又或者,84Please respect copyright.PENANArfS4qEtyc7
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,84Please respect copyright.PENANAYzfLUBFM6p
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?84Please respect copyright.PENANAX7m4xLQpUz
84Please respect copyright.PENANAe8h5QWJT1l
而且,84Please respect copyright.PENANARaZdqG435G
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,84Please respect copyright.PENANAKhh9fVc4GX
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。84Please respect copyright.PENANAx7TuwedW8H
叫足這「三個餸」的話,84Please respect copyright.PENANA8VSV6CAYpX
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,84Please respect copyright.PENANAAPeHB4MFUs
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。84Please respect copyright.PENANAX6iGjyv7vY
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,84Please respect copyright.PENANA6q8wjwU9Rh
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。84Please respect copyright.PENANAxefAHAFwqR
84Please respect copyright.PENANAOM9ja1EXCI
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,84Please respect copyright.PENANAkOOHnAqYZW
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。84Please respect copyright.PENANAY5GFfX2uhm
但,84Please respect copyright.PENANAY9KtmLgn8c
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,84Please respect copyright.PENANAZ64ZeRiX84
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,84Please respect copyright.PENANA4bC9gxR4Xf
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。84Please respect copyright.PENANAaJTtuBFyvV
84Please respect copyright.PENANARxsz8FzvL7
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,84Please respect copyright.PENANAOlox9IXa0e
是兩個完全不同的概念。84Please respect copyright.PENANAQETGZNo0nQ
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,84Please respect copyright.PENANAFp2AIMR6wj
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,84Please respect copyright.PENANARr9GIPwk1l
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。84Please respect copyright.PENANAt8aFAkRzvg
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,84Please respect copyright.PENANAW0ZES4bsLL
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,84Please respect copyright.PENANAcl7erl2Zzq
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。84Please respect copyright.PENANAppowqsvhAq
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。84Please respect copyright.PENANAQYNHLX9W6T
除了錢,84Please respect copyright.PENANAquEfoazVqk
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,84Please respect copyright.PENANAvwXEKJLzSq
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。84Please respect copyright.PENANAh1728y4VUM
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,84Please respect copyright.PENANA2pv2fwFUe0
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,84Please respect copyright.PENANAmJFeCl1UYR
感情更加要預留空間。84Please respect copyright.PENANArrnHe8iH61
84Please respect copyright.PENANABUqdrRmkjv
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》84Please respect copyright.PENANAwnqVfWVNxF
戀愛心理,第十一回。84Please respect copyright.PENANAl3f4Y7jdwP