
十一、分岔 (序)75Please respect copyright.PENANAAUqp9GOOlI
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,75Please respect copyright.PENANA7zq9s60DJn
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:75Please respect copyright.PENANAtbIeHrG2Aw
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,75Please respect copyright.PENANAb6n7R7o0K0
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),75Please respect copyright.PENANAG06IMwUpRU
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:75Please respect copyright.PENANATarBqyZCwb
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,75Please respect copyright.PENANAgaG11WheA7
半分苦頭也不想要」75Please respect copyright.PENANADy3TeO6kpA
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,75Please respect copyright.PENANAXllpUaYfXt
這作者恐怕不知道,75Please respect copyright.PENANA1JYRVSQBGg
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。75Please respect copyright.PENANAlEdofieSiY
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,75Please respect copyright.PENANAlLRAlPju1U
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。75Please respect copyright.PENANAyURPhWVW9F
75Please respect copyright.PENANAqVkghPcZzX
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,75Please respect copyright.PENANAr8aG6nGmkV
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?75Please respect copyright.PENANAGKL3F0XyGM
又或者,75Please respect copyright.PENANAc9EIlUc0xT
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,75Please respect copyright.PENANA2yHr9OPU8X
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?75Please respect copyright.PENANAnTiID3y4st
75Please respect copyright.PENANA4AaCYrZNZh
而且,75Please respect copyright.PENANAkS3JGBNMzF
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,75Please respect copyright.PENANAaJu03ZPIkb
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。75Please respect copyright.PENANAwcmvoQu5pW
叫足這「三個餸」的話,75Please respect copyright.PENANAstqpOEQbDu
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,75Please respect copyright.PENANAeU7N67bLH8
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。75Please respect copyright.PENANAe5dRolmt4q
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,75Please respect copyright.PENANAmZRk1FWRfm
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。75Please respect copyright.PENANAxSr8ypAXu5
75Please respect copyright.PENANA51lI2Lcx51
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,75Please respect copyright.PENANAdHCvDrRFNa
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。75Please respect copyright.PENANATWnRMkRXEP
但,75Please respect copyright.PENANALAvu4hFEE1
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,75Please respect copyright.PENANALnsUCZEJQZ
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,75Please respect copyright.PENANAYpCiqhVdr7
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。75Please respect copyright.PENANA6xgeRkQZmA
75Please respect copyright.PENANA6A1EslnAnU
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,75Please respect copyright.PENANAx2AB3HEhoC
是兩個完全不同的概念。75Please respect copyright.PENANAFIzWNpqQlf
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,75Please respect copyright.PENANAepidYDxMBX
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,75Please respect copyright.PENANAWhmUxh1ehh
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。75Please respect copyright.PENANAGKULapNbir
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,75Please respect copyright.PENANALYIdR9r8mj
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,75Please respect copyright.PENANAWhQNOYidEl
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。75Please respect copyright.PENANA6uaxoGUQsE
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。75Please respect copyright.PENANAL58z7aPzlM
除了錢,75Please respect copyright.PENANAP5iWWclMRf
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,75Please respect copyright.PENANAoKKhe6O9fF
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。75Please respect copyright.PENANA2Cijbn3ODM
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,75Please respect copyright.PENANAJ70nvjOMk7
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,75Please respect copyright.PENANABZfAi07EPG
感情更加要預留空間。75Please respect copyright.PENANA5SPpKF5xnU
75Please respect copyright.PENANApw8mkxXyr3
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》75Please respect copyright.PENANAYAOoN89Obe
戀愛心理,第十一回。75Please respect copyright.PENANAOsid1dFO0I