
92Please respect copyright.PENANAidAngGxZks
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?92Please respect copyright.PENANAO5H2atHVnE
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,92Please respect copyright.PENANAIhuwZETBnC
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,92Please respect copyright.PENANAR3ymOVovGy
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,92Please respect copyright.PENANAEoZLAHvuoe
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」92Please respect copyright.PENANAOzVcdNtTRz
92Please respect copyright.PENANAkiZ77nr1s3
這本新作,92Please respect copyright.PENANAAtgksZvAFo
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,92Please respect copyright.PENANATN4I0Pj8Bh
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,92Please respect copyright.PENANA17C8sIYey3
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。92Please respect copyright.PENANA1eeS07hpZW
這個情況要成立的前提,92Please respect copyright.PENANAjCWwSvus1b
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,92Please respect copyright.PENANAU9jAlrLM1L
作者無提及的是,92Please respect copyright.PENANANjelCVpSKw
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,92Please respect copyright.PENANA7Jab8NnsRJ
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,92Please respect copyright.PENANAfcKOvB7mOv
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。92Please respect copyright.PENANAi30WgrbuKG
痛苦的根源,92Please respect copyright.PENANA3YLaofTc4d
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,92Please respect copyright.PENANABYu8sW6yb3
即「因了解而分開」,92Please respect copyright.PENANAW1sBdD9lxD
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,92Please respect copyright.PENANA8RJ1hs4e23
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,92Please respect copyright.PENANAczv5Hj7lUF
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,92Please respect copyright.PENANALD3Japjtgx
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。92Please respect copyright.PENANAwlCFc4QpAw
92Please respect copyright.PENANA3CAOsiiF2Q
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,92Please respect copyright.PENANA2J8R5eBOTD
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,92Please respect copyright.PENANASvwBnVhTpa
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,92Please respect copyright.PENANATOgsEVKQ33
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,92Please respect copyright.PENANAW5UomenGpY
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。92Please respect copyright.PENANAbiUhpys5nJ
92Please respect copyright.PENANA2aQuhVpelC
有人話,92Please respect copyright.PENANASvQSeclBHD
人到了一定年紀後會發現,92Please respect copyright.PENANALLvvEznyy0
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,92Please respect copyright.PENANAfEDWxvsWdL
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。92Please respect copyright.PENANAuPvoGd2PGa
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,92Please respect copyright.PENANAbwc8Ll1TQZ
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,92Please respect copyright.PENANAroTzlfuWVr
原來是南轅北轍。92Please respect copyright.PENANAKk9gd0DtuL
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,92Please respect copyright.PENANAlfpFplJQ7l
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,92Please respect copyright.PENANAAg4d98LXkQ
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,92Please respect copyright.PENANAch1O6CvNSZ
最終死在沼澤裡。92Please respect copyright.PENANAylwdP2Hga4
讀者們,92Please respect copyright.PENANAXa0VKxTQRe
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,92Please respect copyright.PENANAwlYgSPJ1WG
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,92Please respect copyright.PENANAx2SFuT3gGS
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》92Please respect copyright.PENANAWP7w7WaFe5
戀愛心理,第七回。92Please respect copyright.PENANAWQfHGtNDsB