
66Please respect copyright.PENANA9GcoOcLNzk
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?66Please respect copyright.PENANAUgiVsZlODx
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,66Please respect copyright.PENANAiN1Fcw9ClR
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,66Please respect copyright.PENANA5kSlzFiQye
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,66Please respect copyright.PENANAHqeBpU9gYl
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」66Please respect copyright.PENANAezvby5Qhqz
66Please respect copyright.PENANAIVnCdOVAj7
這本新作,66Please respect copyright.PENANAzoqd7dQ8MF
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,66Please respect copyright.PENANAA1GPJudE2K
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,66Please respect copyright.PENANApcYHY5OvQI
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。66Please respect copyright.PENANA3UYeAtTYHU
這個情況要成立的前提,66Please respect copyright.PENANAdhoEL7fToR
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,66Please respect copyright.PENANAlDca7sUf8X
作者無提及的是,66Please respect copyright.PENANASfzkiRU8p7
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,66Please respect copyright.PENANAhq9Xo5WZ7O
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,66Please respect copyright.PENANAf7BHbIMCuY
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。66Please respect copyright.PENANAKdIvkdaZJA
痛苦的根源,66Please respect copyright.PENANAIuvBhjJEfo
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,66Please respect copyright.PENANAhtXTNpXd9C
即「因了解而分開」,66Please respect copyright.PENANA25qfoKfodg
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,66Please respect copyright.PENANARnGqL32R50
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,66Please respect copyright.PENANAmobLMe0j21
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,66Please respect copyright.PENANA3oerIkC4TJ
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。66Please respect copyright.PENANAGSOj4SNS4L
66Please respect copyright.PENANARyM1pltXr5
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,66Please respect copyright.PENANAfGONLz5bdG
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,66Please respect copyright.PENANADU2uNlXROa
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,66Please respect copyright.PENANAkjnFnyarey
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,66Please respect copyright.PENANAoeViLdDU4R
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。66Please respect copyright.PENANAaFUfmd8h3M
66Please respect copyright.PENANAxOvEGxbqYx
有人話,66Please respect copyright.PENANA8mUqd459B9
人到了一定年紀後會發現,66Please respect copyright.PENANAgDXLMbjA54
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,66Please respect copyright.PENANAdgVYox2LC0
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。66Please respect copyright.PENANASBMO0gWVEl
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,66Please respect copyright.PENANAtg4vc660Yx
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,66Please respect copyright.PENANACEdHVXy3nk
原來是南轅北轍。66Please respect copyright.PENANAjDAs2Q99to
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,66Please respect copyright.PENANAGL7ncot7WE
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,66Please respect copyright.PENANAmCPWNBZwit
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,66Please respect copyright.PENANAZ7iy4Fb5Kb
最終死在沼澤裡。66Please respect copyright.PENANAJVCspVaLuQ
讀者們,66Please respect copyright.PENANA0fyQvoN8GL
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,66Please respect copyright.PENANApD5lONQPmS
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,66Please respect copyright.PENANAOVoNB6N9uB
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》66Please respect copyright.PENANAkuwCYcVwCs
戀愛心理,第七回。66Please respect copyright.PENANAe4SGpPfgpu