
130Please respect copyright.PENANAEPYZRK3We1
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?130Please respect copyright.PENANAkWPSzd44kI
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,130Please respect copyright.PENANAkdMsM2u84m
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,130Please respect copyright.PENANA4JbyQSvTOW
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,130Please respect copyright.PENANAEiF9zLG2YP
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」130Please respect copyright.PENANAWNTpV77Me5
130Please respect copyright.PENANAaMZOWlvhDT
這本新作,130Please respect copyright.PENANAcYtD9u722L
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,130Please respect copyright.PENANAA15fsmuWBQ
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,130Please respect copyright.PENANAZ0XWrYYaEU
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。130Please respect copyright.PENANAyLhw4UdRTp
這個情況要成立的前提,130Please respect copyright.PENANA9X9gTNFIKX
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,130Please respect copyright.PENANAg2Oz7YXzR1
作者無提及的是,130Please respect copyright.PENANAFEpw6I1pML
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,130Please respect copyright.PENANAHOJvfetSek
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,130Please respect copyright.PENANAQm2WiGapYp
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。130Please respect copyright.PENANAiDyOQIjMv0
痛苦的根源,130Please respect copyright.PENANAlLym0qkb7t
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,130Please respect copyright.PENANABshoH7E4CK
即「因了解而分開」,130Please respect copyright.PENANA0NzYJKb1sQ
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,130Please respect copyright.PENANAYIgSA5cvaS
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,130Please respect copyright.PENANA4Uehd3lq8o
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,130Please respect copyright.PENANAaNYFfFvMDP
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。130Please respect copyright.PENANAW3PtAidvKL
130Please respect copyright.PENANAt0tCdnjZNi
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,130Please respect copyright.PENANAQ1xojB7bWu
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,130Please respect copyright.PENANA9NV3TXW43P
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,130Please respect copyright.PENANAXQqSpYxjjL
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,130Please respect copyright.PENANAbewmohiBif
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。130Please respect copyright.PENANALGCI2sWLuQ
130Please respect copyright.PENANAwp0b8JvxbI
有人話,130Please respect copyright.PENANAkPHW5sYJH7
人到了一定年紀後會發現,130Please respect copyright.PENANAihKKvrzSVZ
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,130Please respect copyright.PENANAQNgW5gUyva
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。130Please respect copyright.PENANABEwHLDKECu
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,130Please respect copyright.PENANAHHQOHaxnZ6
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,130Please respect copyright.PENANA53TGPLncL9
原來是南轅北轍。130Please respect copyright.PENANArhfFF7jjgT
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,130Please respect copyright.PENANAAqRRhdJSLw
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,130Please respect copyright.PENANACaU40r1Cjf
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,130Please respect copyright.PENANApR1gnxFbbT
最終死在沼澤裡。130Please respect copyright.PENANAc8uyE4Fjv6
讀者們,130Please respect copyright.PENANAALDZkV9DOK
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,130Please respect copyright.PENANAoPKDQX9B8o
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,130Please respect copyright.PENANASD3YqT16t6
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》130Please respect copyright.PENANAhsTeFh4Yv0
戀愛心理,第七回。130Please respect copyright.PENANAcmGCrwym4f