
十一、分岔 (序)70Please respect copyright.PENANAImUMwhwuhQ
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,70Please respect copyright.PENANAr7APOwtpnY
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:70Please respect copyright.PENANA4D1s5Rgfrl
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,70Please respect copyright.PENANAiwBEZ7O5Rd
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),70Please respect copyright.PENANA1KXYnPlm4h
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:70Please respect copyright.PENANAAUr5wjtrDx
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,70Please respect copyright.PENANAo1Nswe7ckT
半分苦頭也不想要」70Please respect copyright.PENANAiBiZdqHxo5
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,70Please respect copyright.PENANAWZJi97bjF3
這作者恐怕不知道,70Please respect copyright.PENANAMpNs2w7g4c
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。70Please respect copyright.PENANALRjRsVpU8p
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,70Please respect copyright.PENANAZ3tQlpicF8
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。70Please respect copyright.PENANAQGvJY65uig
70Please respect copyright.PENANA66zS2ABS4p
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,70Please respect copyright.PENANAQmR7LIa4uv
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?70Please respect copyright.PENANAsnIhahsVam
又或者,70Please respect copyright.PENANAEEk13YvD00
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,70Please respect copyright.PENANADbgkmkT45k
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?70Please respect copyright.PENANAEtUeK1P2VH
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而且,70Please respect copyright.PENANAPWBymHtoKR
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,70Please respect copyright.PENANAj90i4PT5vs
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。70Please respect copyright.PENANAlphqwM6W2l
叫足這「三個餸」的話,70Please respect copyright.PENANA58uQYYjz39
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,70Please respect copyright.PENANAkYrJrQKUxN
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。70Please respect copyright.PENANAv8BxioYzq7
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,70Please respect copyright.PENANA2tlpEmw0iO
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。70Please respect copyright.PENANAiGsbORp4u2
70Please respect copyright.PENANAQ7AqWJeFXu
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,70Please respect copyright.PENANAiibWTavo0A
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。70Please respect copyright.PENANAooZdDPk0lZ
但,70Please respect copyright.PENANAx0hlORwQk5
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,70Please respect copyright.PENANAzcgPyXFGcd
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,70Please respect copyright.PENANAxbX3uNQhft
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。70Please respect copyright.PENANARiJIAOsTn7
70Please respect copyright.PENANAQ2fhkiUvRD
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,70Please respect copyright.PENANAwyc8QFWBEe
是兩個完全不同的概念。70Please respect copyright.PENANAyYobYYghKC
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,70Please respect copyright.PENANAWyJtMXta3x
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,70Please respect copyright.PENANAMBHO1xc6p8
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。70Please respect copyright.PENANAQTxT9A4gky
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,70Please respect copyright.PENANABKu2UNMFIV
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,70Please respect copyright.PENANAHAchujRRXH
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。70Please respect copyright.PENANAUkk4jFaQ40
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。70Please respect copyright.PENANAbfAoKMXWqG
除了錢,70Please respect copyright.PENANATiSNK2Uv7f
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,70Please respect copyright.PENANAkjRNMMmBdn
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。70Please respect copyright.PENANAPvsoxusRJx
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,70Please respect copyright.PENANAslSmrCERVb
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,70Please respect copyright.PENANABTZPNaWmrj
感情更加要預留空間。70Please respect copyright.PENANAxZEVTadf6w
70Please respect copyright.PENANA60UafDIQwT
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》70Please respect copyright.PENANA60sIQFF4jf
戀愛心理,第十一回。70Please respect copyright.PENANAwS08jc7i1Z