
十一、分岔 (序)96Please respect copyright.PENANArlOvv60z26
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,96Please respect copyright.PENANAuQV4ZlxXF1
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:96Please respect copyright.PENANApFUSTcJjgb
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,96Please respect copyright.PENANAKSK59s1DKG
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),96Please respect copyright.PENANAIOGsq0ICxK
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:96Please respect copyright.PENANAuuV6VZj6TZ
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,96Please respect copyright.PENANAlsZ0ldTVKE
半分苦頭也不想要」96Please respect copyright.PENANAtEgTXjg8W0
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,96Please respect copyright.PENANAMa3Yo0zVus
這作者恐怕不知道,96Please respect copyright.PENANAEAvx6TqInt
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。96Please respect copyright.PENANAs3GohLNlvL
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,96Please respect copyright.PENANA1DmJuevfNh
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。96Please respect copyright.PENANAWAcia6JxJu
96Please respect copyright.PENANALQVvcs7bx1
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,96Please respect copyright.PENANAV265FfNFqx
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?96Please respect copyright.PENANAaoUhdkeG3L
又或者,96Please respect copyright.PENANA8wfsDaWTab
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,96Please respect copyright.PENANAE7RjAbWBzV
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?96Please respect copyright.PENANAN5Gdavf1ja
96Please respect copyright.PENANAonjfmQlYJy
而且,96Please respect copyright.PENANAVKfNq1eaLw
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,96Please respect copyright.PENANAVXqntlc9wQ
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。96Please respect copyright.PENANAnDmVJJGgrx
叫足這「三個餸」的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANAsdsY5KHTPe
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,96Please respect copyright.PENANAngzN4UkdYQ
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。96Please respect copyright.PENANAAfcfhnQEKJ
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,96Please respect copyright.PENANAygTLE6obEb
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。96Please respect copyright.PENANAHnilnVj5iS
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,96Please respect copyright.PENANA3nud31dPNZ
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。96Please respect copyright.PENANAamEGamZ2pj
但,96Please respect copyright.PENANADvU66gzUXQ
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,96Please respect copyright.PENANAX1feq4mUBt
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANAASahI33jI6
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。96Please respect copyright.PENANAGbCVPNnXsg
96Please respect copyright.PENANAoJCfyJtnQh
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,96Please respect copyright.PENANAK6Ejfw6Yq8
是兩個完全不同的概念。96Please respect copyright.PENANA8xPA32d97q
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANA3bt6b6dKr4
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,96Please respect copyright.PENANAyf0UKVxpl6
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。96Please respect copyright.PENANAExbY1Ttx1t
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,96Please respect copyright.PENANAoR3qJ4v6ij
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,96Please respect copyright.PENANAklWRU6rRvV
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。96Please respect copyright.PENANAskOxdrtwDn
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。96Please respect copyright.PENANAHGO4WZ4xKw
除了錢,96Please respect copyright.PENANAnWM8dB9G7I
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,96Please respect copyright.PENANAtyENjvSV4j
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。96Please respect copyright.PENANAElGPIV58il
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,96Please respect copyright.PENANAQCzsJoLb4P
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,96Please respect copyright.PENANA6s5aqaBDJ2
感情更加要預留空間。96Please respect copyright.PENANAA13vx2prYi
96Please respect copyright.PENANAlldCEoPoyU
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》96Please respect copyright.PENANAqMxlLLzFem
戀愛心理,第十一回。96Please respect copyright.PENANASQsM1iOEQ1