
十一、分岔 (序)94Please respect copyright.PENANAwi9EOZBqSi
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,94Please respect copyright.PENANAELY4x38Hya
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:94Please respect copyright.PENANAaMuoc8Mos6
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,94Please respect copyright.PENANARUeJHTwIzE
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),94Please respect copyright.PENANAGAtO2tBqZ2
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:94Please respect copyright.PENANA87EwsjH1QM
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,94Please respect copyright.PENANALH971eS5MY
半分苦頭也不想要」94Please respect copyright.PENANAE3JRQb6pQP
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,94Please respect copyright.PENANAz9w5UktjGy
這作者恐怕不知道,94Please respect copyright.PENANAA52tnZFWaf
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。94Please respect copyright.PENANAv5HR6F8iDu
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,94Please respect copyright.PENANAJpi1Ah3ltW
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。94Please respect copyright.PENANAvNNKXOCmQz
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,94Please respect copyright.PENANAuvmjWPJ0xz
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?94Please respect copyright.PENANAPSzgBYF6ln
又或者,94Please respect copyright.PENANA4VEaT3j29b
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,94Please respect copyright.PENANAbOlFjYi3cY
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?94Please respect copyright.PENANAELfpeAa0fm
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而且,94Please respect copyright.PENANA419NklSXIV
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,94Please respect copyright.PENANAipNIG2zmGD
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。94Please respect copyright.PENANA1L0f0Mrkn1
叫足這「三個餸」的話,94Please respect copyright.PENANA6KYZHtiT90
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,94Please respect copyright.PENANAmddlD4RvQA
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。94Please respect copyright.PENANAlzgL2Tbioz
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,94Please respect copyright.PENANAFB7qGJEMMs
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。94Please respect copyright.PENANAYpFzZtAtQl
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,94Please respect copyright.PENANAaH9SDUE8wo
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。94Please respect copyright.PENANALH5a2sCpAl
但,94Please respect copyright.PENANAnCPjgTKfWV
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,94Please respect copyright.PENANAYfSThf2y0k
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,94Please respect copyright.PENANAVOY22zRKNq
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。94Please respect copyright.PENANA8c7ffBcgI6
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,94Please respect copyright.PENANA8DTkF6nv5M
是兩個完全不同的概念。94Please respect copyright.PENANAG7YnKLDSAz
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,94Please respect copyright.PENANAGcKkYIpqs3
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,94Please respect copyright.PENANALiZFsYMfkp
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。94Please respect copyright.PENANA1ycc98Q2fc
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,94Please respect copyright.PENANAttScFj2NfC
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,94Please respect copyright.PENANA6KQ0owyQnh
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。94Please respect copyright.PENANAdQgy295Fi5
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。94Please respect copyright.PENANASTN61sxBzs
除了錢,94Please respect copyright.PENANAu9Uaoh6Q9S
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,94Please respect copyright.PENANAPW9Sdw1pEW
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。94Please respect copyright.PENANAJcPgmsiNp4
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,94Please respect copyright.PENANAKfbCvAO8cV
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,94Please respect copyright.PENANAe1fdCztgOA
感情更加要預留空間。94Please respect copyright.PENANALqm3UNEMt9
94Please respect copyright.PENANAuBoAezLeZp
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》94Please respect copyright.PENANAu28hYWOXFM
戀愛心理,第十一回。94Please respect copyright.PENANABxvIxVdLDT