
十一、分岔 (序)89Please respect copyright.PENANAjYAycNdOMc
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,89Please respect copyright.PENANAzhaeiHeMxy
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:89Please respect copyright.PENANA2xaBWfKMPm
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,89Please respect copyright.PENANANQWXp9ea7z
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),89Please respect copyright.PENANAlsI8y0yniV
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:89Please respect copyright.PENANAGoNwoOF20e
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,89Please respect copyright.PENANAUDqM4DRcMI
半分苦頭也不想要」89Please respect copyright.PENANAtuySQY1OtH
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,89Please respect copyright.PENANAaSbLtBTZEr
這作者恐怕不知道,89Please respect copyright.PENANAUFegIwHgKx
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。89Please respect copyright.PENANAkUYkTjPUZ9
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,89Please respect copyright.PENANAobIRMobXMb
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。89Please respect copyright.PENANA1UVbFhquXa
89Please respect copyright.PENANARRJh3GTSuv
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,89Please respect copyright.PENANA8mFwE0rwdV
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?89Please respect copyright.PENANAxMn9AZgx2M
又或者,89Please respect copyright.PENANAO8kYCfAamh
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,89Please respect copyright.PENANATEb7JnF1tr
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?89Please respect copyright.PENANA5n6wiOQxD6
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而且,89Please respect copyright.PENANA8sqGxP0aXy
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,89Please respect copyright.PENANA0QUQbxFYZS
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。89Please respect copyright.PENANAvwNm9Cer3j
叫足這「三個餸」的話,89Please respect copyright.PENANAlqiyeIPsV3
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,89Please respect copyright.PENANA91jfbiJkqC
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。89Please respect copyright.PENANAaBQ9jveRl0
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,89Please respect copyright.PENANAbhXmVcgkVY
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。89Please respect copyright.PENANAv10AB2hvXB
89Please respect copyright.PENANA3kmYn0FUoW
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,89Please respect copyright.PENANAgiLhquOJqv
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。89Please respect copyright.PENANA1cN39gWT5W
但,89Please respect copyright.PENANAcvOeJmf3BH
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,89Please respect copyright.PENANANnJihYzWU0
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,89Please respect copyright.PENANAM4LYXZPWsV
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。89Please respect copyright.PENANA8jRRJRoW63
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,89Please respect copyright.PENANA7dUXK86jWQ
是兩個完全不同的概念。89Please respect copyright.PENANAx1GbYziGSu
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,89Please respect copyright.PENANABtBMczGf1T
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,89Please respect copyright.PENANAQZOaBaf9FU
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。89Please respect copyright.PENANAr4SDHMyTzi
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,89Please respect copyright.PENANAsmYV3gkEf4
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,89Please respect copyright.PENANArSwb8unk2I
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。89Please respect copyright.PENANAeOCvG7s22z
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。89Please respect copyright.PENANAbbuhBeVt9e
除了錢,89Please respect copyright.PENANAM90vwQYshO
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,89Please respect copyright.PENANA6sJyeaONhW
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。89Please respect copyright.PENANACHhfGixpbK
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,89Please respect copyright.PENANAKYzNlGEkQo
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,89Please respect copyright.PENANAZKp31d5urN
感情更加要預留空間。89Please respect copyright.PENANA6WzzgOUVI2
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》89Please respect copyright.PENANA6Dy6xV0xEG
戀愛心理,第十一回。89Please respect copyright.PENANAVrcXjQVnBK