
十一、分岔 (序)114Please respect copyright.PENANA2rFIOxHA2O
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,114Please respect copyright.PENANAJTs7gQpvEY
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:114Please respect copyright.PENANAccwSb0LKcG
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,114Please respect copyright.PENANAdoLiOFj8IN
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),114Please respect copyright.PENANAws1mhxFu8p
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:114Please respect copyright.PENANAJ4ceoDmfy8
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,114Please respect copyright.PENANA1dsIueZavz
半分苦頭也不想要」114Please respect copyright.PENANAStTo1Xxydq
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,114Please respect copyright.PENANAE4iLT2V0Sk
這作者恐怕不知道,114Please respect copyright.PENANARUMWUdRx5r
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。114Please respect copyright.PENANAUZGH6C9C6e
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,114Please respect copyright.PENANAV2FKKPkq46
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。114Please respect copyright.PENANAGBVZgblw8q
114Please respect copyright.PENANA2e3WtSMW2G
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,114Please respect copyright.PENANAbVk1PI8B00
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?114Please respect copyright.PENANALLnynma7BS
又或者,114Please respect copyright.PENANAW12qsMydX6
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,114Please respect copyright.PENANA26IUnXekJV
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?114Please respect copyright.PENANAyNWan7S16I
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而且,114Please respect copyright.PENANAx76THoFQTs
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,114Please respect copyright.PENANAsRkbuhWsjY
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。114Please respect copyright.PENANAEm2rKcY72v
叫足這「三個餸」的話,114Please respect copyright.PENANAyobK3nu6x6
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,114Please respect copyright.PENANAQxOE5zIlIK
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。114Please respect copyright.PENANA9qmzj4CzVG
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,114Please respect copyright.PENANAG7or13rgE0
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。114Please respect copyright.PENANAF662l4r3EV
114Please respect copyright.PENANAuw15ZTlIfT
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,114Please respect copyright.PENANAwnyodVUJir
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。114Please respect copyright.PENANA5luQ2uhfCO
但,114Please respect copyright.PENANAZxH0GihxFm
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,114Please respect copyright.PENANA5LJUupMucV
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,114Please respect copyright.PENANAZYf4XpfFiq
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。114Please respect copyright.PENANAXy2QueeE2R
114Please respect copyright.PENANAz8PtHTbz6O
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,114Please respect copyright.PENANAzwxWvvac93
是兩個完全不同的概念。114Please respect copyright.PENANAY47c7WURby
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,114Please respect copyright.PENANAhPTAsy4mFc
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,114Please respect copyright.PENANA3E9heVr531
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。114Please respect copyright.PENANASDrCImEfKg
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,114Please respect copyright.PENANAE9Fn4Tg9ur
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,114Please respect copyright.PENANAGRFmC7qTxH
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。114Please respect copyright.PENANAmrUdboR71Q
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。114Please respect copyright.PENANAk1mohjH731
除了錢,114Please respect copyright.PENANANxQ8eFXUsJ
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,114Please respect copyright.PENANAwr7SnN8TDs
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。114Please respect copyright.PENANAdlE7rJiTcz
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,114Please respect copyright.PENANAgHv07dGDmh
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,114Please respect copyright.PENANAqxAgWezI6n
感情更加要預留空間。114Please respect copyright.PENANAMpB3Y8BYlr
114Please respect copyright.PENANAwBlCHBc4ot
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》114Please respect copyright.PENANA19e4bMdqUQ
戀愛心理,第十一回。114Please respect copyright.PENANAnGPNUuKQxL