
十一、分岔 (序)60Please respect copyright.PENANAsyeENikeI7
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,60Please respect copyright.PENANABJUYI83LBA
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:60Please respect copyright.PENANAUsGBqlSNuG
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,60Please respect copyright.PENANAnYg78lPCdz
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),60Please respect copyright.PENANADQv0IWHZvO
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:60Please respect copyright.PENANA0orCxmxabP
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,60Please respect copyright.PENANAyp3FiUYnKx
半分苦頭也不想要」60Please respect copyright.PENANAWp2fPAoThA
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,60Please respect copyright.PENANA6bzN0kARqK
這作者恐怕不知道,60Please respect copyright.PENANA5ElPsW60TE
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。60Please respect copyright.PENANAkPxAES5IsT
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,60Please respect copyright.PENANA5O8WYJhCUs
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。60Please respect copyright.PENANANwLxMJ6uYd
60Please respect copyright.PENANA1FVVeTTGi2
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,60Please respect copyright.PENANAQ4upVSjz9d
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?60Please respect copyright.PENANAuw1uwmMRa4
又或者,60Please respect copyright.PENANA3TabMaf0OZ
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,60Please respect copyright.PENANANvtJ3YOiWP
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?60Please respect copyright.PENANASDHFQnCGKy
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而且,60Please respect copyright.PENANAcxi4NKi7B7
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,60Please respect copyright.PENANAtRiUjd240w
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。60Please respect copyright.PENANAewpD9B0t8U
叫足這「三個餸」的話,60Please respect copyright.PENANAqhXSPAqTG6
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,60Please respect copyright.PENANAiJna15o41n
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。60Please respect copyright.PENANAk5VA8eWyxw
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,60Please respect copyright.PENANARHsW1wzBgC
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。60Please respect copyright.PENANAHoCmZcGqyk
60Please respect copyright.PENANAJ0ztg1uh9k
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,60Please respect copyright.PENANAEMPPn0wIwO
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。60Please respect copyright.PENANAgkasq9joe6
但,60Please respect copyright.PENANAME4Iy3sez2
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,60Please respect copyright.PENANAlrbbrYDaU4
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,60Please respect copyright.PENANAQwbwsINqDr
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。60Please respect copyright.PENANAVB2Kx9pJ6T
60Please respect copyright.PENANAsdFxwnulsk
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,60Please respect copyright.PENANAQWIbJnp0j3
是兩個完全不同的概念。60Please respect copyright.PENANAUbxW8fHn5P
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,60Please respect copyright.PENANAv0hbDPF7WU
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,60Please respect copyright.PENANAThBDik3MfP
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。60Please respect copyright.PENANAZhPBxgpQ99
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,60Please respect copyright.PENANAcdLdW9caan
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,60Please respect copyright.PENANAKALdOEFGiQ
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。60Please respect copyright.PENANAk6liU2RdXQ
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。60Please respect copyright.PENANAhnZ3Niv6EI
除了錢,60Please respect copyright.PENANABXu3GiQbev
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,60Please respect copyright.PENANAFDbOmD2oxf
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。60Please respect copyright.PENANADg6uIbXWLF
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,60Please respect copyright.PENANAm0WPJej5Xe
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,60Please respect copyright.PENANApIBNfei62J
感情更加要預留空間。60Please respect copyright.PENANA8orqsQaC4a
60Please respect copyright.PENANAnOqg9uceqU
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》60Please respect copyright.PENANAt6EyKcb4hE
戀愛心理,第十一回。60Please respect copyright.PENANA8cMnEL5wXk