
十一、分岔 (序)80Please respect copyright.PENANAj6M7CvHtor
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,80Please respect copyright.PENANAjdNlysrram
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:80Please respect copyright.PENANAZzkJ4yWDxy
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,80Please respect copyright.PENANAWXzbj2qZ9g
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),80Please respect copyright.PENANA532t9fBNuL
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:80Please respect copyright.PENANA3LMkicmLo5
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,80Please respect copyright.PENANAeJfeAPOQoD
半分苦頭也不想要」80Please respect copyright.PENANAHhQVQZYPn8
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,80Please respect copyright.PENANAdgJ1PFadwp
這作者恐怕不知道,80Please respect copyright.PENANAXatXj9tG6T
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。80Please respect copyright.PENANAmYYTMT7Xg2
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,80Please respect copyright.PENANA0HYZDsw1et
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。80Please respect copyright.PENANAOpPUewAeVC
80Please respect copyright.PENANAPVVLadRi0r
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,80Please respect copyright.PENANAgiUhwlgdk8
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?80Please respect copyright.PENANAHj4fI75NBT
又或者,80Please respect copyright.PENANADPYUB83yw8
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,80Please respect copyright.PENANATziz1ndd7m
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?80Please respect copyright.PENANAubK6ndhF5h
80Please respect copyright.PENANAXYhNHoEwDQ
而且,80Please respect copyright.PENANAGrBHts34Ki
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,80Please respect copyright.PENANAqwpQEN75sN
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。80Please respect copyright.PENANAOTVZzaZDyn
叫足這「三個餸」的話,80Please respect copyright.PENANArz7hSNvPMC
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,80Please respect copyright.PENANATXOV48Vjjj
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。80Please respect copyright.PENANAsa52QevqO8
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,80Please respect copyright.PENANAmGnZ6EJ1BR
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。80Please respect copyright.PENANAE4HjhxGDgc
80Please respect copyright.PENANAaOLZ9hXVrC
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,80Please respect copyright.PENANAN2aZgnvZOB
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。80Please respect copyright.PENANAYvpawtDLvb
但,80Please respect copyright.PENANARdF5C3cfDb
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,80Please respect copyright.PENANAnYZXAtK2Yz
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,80Please respect copyright.PENANAaizwNLfpYP
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。80Please respect copyright.PENANAzefzhobSJ9
80Please respect copyright.PENANAi5kv4kWIac
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,80Please respect copyright.PENANAq9wT4uQPed
是兩個完全不同的概念。80Please respect copyright.PENANA51hhBZ5P3L
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,80Please respect copyright.PENANALuZCP3Kzid
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,80Please respect copyright.PENANA2iKb7Zd88b
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。80Please respect copyright.PENANAYphAZUGiUV
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,80Please respect copyright.PENANArh668a8n35
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,80Please respect copyright.PENANA0U9dfmaFoC
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。80Please respect copyright.PENANALwAnlMnB38
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。80Please respect copyright.PENANAGJ6zK1dqlb
除了錢,80Please respect copyright.PENANAHzzNFvGDv7
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,80Please respect copyright.PENANA7N0IMeQ3iN
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。80Please respect copyright.PENANAim0rGdgX7r
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,80Please respect copyright.PENANAheJ9nMA1O3
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,80Please respect copyright.PENANACacw4Y7WIZ
感情更加要預留空間。80Please respect copyright.PENANA8AzYQhuogS
80Please respect copyright.PENANAJqkvJc23zW
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》80Please respect copyright.PENANAkZ5DI08soy
戀愛心理,第十一回。80Please respect copyright.PENANAmd03mjXYWD