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炎炎夏日,台北市可以躲太陽又有趣的地方不多。所以我跟歸國友人,躲進了一家貓咖啡廳。129Please respect copyright.PENANA2d734Yt6C0
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每次到貓咖啡廳,我都在觀察人與貓的互動模式。129Please respect copyright.PENANAinUP0fH11o
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無論人們如何施展各種討好貓的方法,貓其實只在乎兩種事物:129Please respect copyright.PENANA3peMKByrov
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牠愛的,與牠恐懼的。129Please respect copyright.PENANADqKgMQgN3i
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雖然有些貓『看似』會與客人互動,但那通常只是經過、或者是你的衣袋上有激發牠們動物本能的氣味。129Please respect copyright.PENANAvTKS6aACsC
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能讓貓兒們認真凝視的,只有主人。129Please respect copyright.PENANARd0goF7cYB
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雖然牠們會下場走動,只要有機會,牠們還是會選擇待在主人(店長)身邊;如同我們自家的貓一樣,和主人搶電腦鍵盤、搶水杯,搶主人心裡的的那個位置。129Please respect copyright.PENANAo0Kf7FPag1
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說實在話,我們去消費,就是甘願當店貓的梳毛機、餵食機、還有人肉電暖爐吧XD129Please respect copyright.PENANAB9RKNKzAfb
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當然,還有一種狀況,所有的貓都會注意到你:129Please respect copyright.PENANA0oZLbTcGU6
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當你弄痛了一隻貓、或者是做出對牠們產生威脅的舉動,所有的貓都會驚醒,毫不客氣地盯著你看,用眼神警告,或發出尖叫。129Please respect copyright.PENANA7k2RQMnCPL
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有時我在想,我們跟其他動物的差別,真的有那麼巨大嗎?129Please respect copyright.PENANAq4Ab3b1BT6
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想一想我們日常關注的事:129Please respect copyright.PENANAUnF2o4RjyT
你在乎熱愛的事情的份量有多少?在乎被威脅的感覺又有多少?129Please respect copyright.PENANA2OYzo3MNqD
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有的人會說,我當然是把注意力投注在關注的事情上呀,這是正向思考,我很會!129Please respect copyright.PENANA69EtsTS3LS
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威脅、恐懼、討好、和壓抑,它們之間的差異,並沒有想像得大。129Please respect copyright.PENANAaZ5SiIrL4D
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我關注一個人,我可能是喜歡他,但也有可能我害怕被他排除在喜歡的行列,所以我要努力跟上。129Please respect copyright.PENANAJCe0RP5R13
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我在臉書上分享一件有趣的事,也許是我覺得真的有趣,想跟你分享;但也有可能我注意到這件事跟上潮流,我想當朋友裡第一個潮流先鋒,讓人們覺得我的意見有價值……129Please respect copyright.PENANAxOUDcyrLxd
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過度在意形象的背後,那些細微的小心思,都包裹在美好的遠景裡。129Please respect copyright.PENANAj5lFPy0SDh
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在行動時,連我們都未必能能夠完全看透自己。129Please respect copyright.PENANANdOfP5NiW2
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但是動物擁有直心,牠們喜歡一個人,就是喜歡。129Please respect copyright.PENANAezCJxa0CyQ
當然牠們對食物的愛也是澎湃的!但是食物吃完時,牠們會很清楚知道牠們要的就是食物。129Please respect copyright.PENANALLrbI2lmpF
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會窩在一起取暖、會互相舔毛的伙伴,是真心喜歡的對象。129Please respect copyright.PENANAjpZkoD4Ckk
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要讓我們的眼睛,多跟我們愛、與真心愛我們的人交流。少一點為了謀生不得已的扭曲與矯情,讓自己的心順暢一些。129Please respect copyright.PENANAIg5gQOgezw
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咖啡廳裡的貓,無論多麼親客人,當牠們想睡覺、想充電的時候,多半會回到主人身後的櫃臺下方、或者客人搆不到的地方,安然地恢復成生命的原廠設定。129Please respect copyright.PENANAclsso7EzVX
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我們也需要學學牠們,在需要回血的時候,誠實地做自己。
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