No Plagiarism!qT9Ubi3IgpyLSwhQANLYposted on PENANA 怎樣的戀愛關係才稱得上「不枉此行」?8964 copyright protection46PENANA7UtAvuolA3 維尼
我以前經常思考這個問題,8964 copyright protection46PENANABfzIILHhsM 維尼
亦早已得出結論:成為彼此的靈魂伴侶,8964 copyright protection46PENANAhMesZF6F1E 維尼
能夠朝著某種目標共同進步、改變。8964 copyright protection46PENANAYkdLxMgiS4 維尼
因此,我曾對「改變」有種執着。8964 copyright protection46PENANAP6IFiP9Jfl 維尼
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認識他的時候,我還未成年。8964 copyright protection46PENANAS10GTmQI0b 維尼
他年紀也不算大,沒記錯應該二十一歲,8964 copyright protection46PENANAykNOCur8rL 維尼
但已經全職工作三年,從事「鏟車」操作,8964 copyright protection46PENANA1LMTQNQPrZ 維尼
有兩位知心好友,喜歡以全黑裝束示人,8964 copyright protection46PENANAqDIUwe9pgx 維尼
唯一的興趣就是打籃球。8964 copyright protection46PENANACSiv55D741 維尼
其實是我朋友太少,他又經常找我,8964 copyright protection46PENANA2yGjUFFKNH 維尼
我們才開始熟絡起來。他喜歡我。8964 copyright protection46PENANAppfMiFnisx 維尼
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「你認為這件藍色襯衫適合我嗎?」8964 copyright protection46PENANAppX9DTznLa 維尼
某次外出時,他問我意見。8964 copyright protection46PENANAtwph1235mC 維尼
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「終於厭倦黑色了?」8964 copyright protection46PENANA6b6Zof0xdw 維尼
我嘲笑著他。8964 copyright protection46PENANAqAGNEqWuRb 維尼
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「如你所說,人生不應只有黑白灰嘛!我想多作些新嘗試。」8964 copyright protection46PENANAv8GTW0BpzA 維尼
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他想改變,並希望得到我的認同。8964 copyright protection46PENANAofILNUMcN4 維尼
這將會是個好開始。8964 copyright protection46PENANAcfvp1NRC5t 維尼
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「很適合你。」8964 copyright protection46PENANAgOiBNm1dWq 維尼
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數月後,他確實有些明顯的轉變。8964 copyright protection46PENANANbjXr6InwK 維尼
他一改以往對世事非黑即白的理解,8964 copyright protection46PENANAbnp7VSzXxQ 維尼
學會體諒某些人性的扭曲和灰啞。8964 copyright protection46PENANAX3KInoO7AR 維尼
由於他幾乎與我分享生活所有細節,8964 copyright protection46PENANArAghV2G67W 維尼
遇到難題時,也會向我尋求建議,8964 copyright protection46PENANAEOGjkb6wan 維尼
因此我的思想多少對他有影響。8964 copyright protection46PENANAxlfv1GEmEa 維尼
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後來,他甚至說對音樂有興趣,8964 copyright protection46PENANAKWIrfYTg2A 維尼
問我可否教他彈鋼琴,8964 copyright protection46PENANAiQz1hcqeSr 維尼
不得不承認,他有點可愛。8964 copyright protection46PENANAyGMSrx8jmG 維尼
而且他受我影響而發自內心改變,8964 copyright protection46PENANAZsmJhYSo3w 維尼
這點令我自豪。8964 copyright protection46PENANALD1Wg03gpc 維尼
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但我們之間,仍然存在著一些難題。8964 copyright protection46PENANAdEaGiQsbcU 維尼
他經常說服我有「被他保護的必要」,8964 copyright protection46PENANAWfILIPP1px 維尼
這種「保護」是指關係中的位置和角色,8964 copyright protection46PENANA4uH8XwKGN3 維尼
他要飾演強者,而我則扮演弱者,8964 copyright protection46PENANAwIguD4cMmY 維尼
問題是,我根本不太需要別人保護。8964 copyright protection46PENANAME2X5mz1HP 維尼
而且我的保護慾甚至比他強烈。8964 copyright protection46PENANA1zKLU5IfcS 維尼
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雖然,我不否認自己有脆弱的時候,8964 copyright protection46PENANAiBnz95Bqhw 維尼
也明白適時配合對方是情趣,8964 copyright protection46PENANA9HwtVdSc8y 維尼
向對方坦露自身弱點,就是靈魂交流的開端。8964 copyright protection46PENANAYx6RU0zWt6 維尼
但我們已相識數月,他還是不太了解我,8964 copyright protection46PENANA3Bjs43ZYYW 維尼
所以,我需在關係進一步發展前得出結論。8964 copyright protection46PENANAsrvnN6kkrz 維尼
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「你認為我比較理性,還是感性?」8964 copyright protection46PENANAYP00dWBCwg 維尼
這是我問過最愚蠢的問題。8964 copyright protection46PENANAMOs19cOH0U 維尼
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「感性。」8964 copyright protection46PENANAFg0c0GYHpK 維尼
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「感性?」8964 copyright protection46PENANAmPqvC8nr3Z 維尼
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「你多愁善感啊。看起來很堅強,但內心深處始終渴望別人明白自己,保護自己。」8964 copyright protection46PENANAGjUhJ2JOdn 維尼
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看,換來多麼愚蠢的答案!8964 copyright protection46PENANAsC3FVGg3xl 維尼
這不只是放諸四海而皆準的陳述,8964 copyright protection46PENANAV83BfFLpSR 維尼
更反映了他內心深處的理想與真實需求,8964 copyright protection46PENANAGs8XNAsROb 維尼
如何充滿著不對稱矛盾和謬誤。8964 copyright protection46PENANA6Mpyj0GKO8 維尼
他需要我,也希望我需要他,8964 copyright protection46PENANAi3oB3SHtsB 維尼
因為他更需要被需要的感覺。8964 copyright protection46PENANAwGdOMkpNPC 維尼
唉喲。誰不知太陽會東升西降?8964 copyright protection46PENANAss0vvarTOs 維尼
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如果我早兩年認識他的話,8964 copyright protection46PENANAslxb4ZwLUQ 維尼
一定會殘忍地對他說:「基於你的人生枯燥乏味,多數時間只能妥協和服從他人。但你脆弱的自尊心作祟,才希望透過愛情來獲得某種權力體驗,以填補現實的軟弱無能和自卑。這是自欺欺人又可悲的想法。」8964 copyright protection46PENANAfX6w8ESZx4 維尼
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放心,在我說出口前,已經離開了。8964 copyright protection46PENANArTalKwxK3w 維尼
他學鋼琴時,發現粗糙的雙手無法協調,8964 copyright protection46PENANABgN0xWHw9Y 維尼
彈過幾次便放棄了。是我想得不夠周全,8964 copyright protection46PENANA2jqt36QMHn 維尼
沒考慮到改變所需的成本,因人而異。8964 copyright protection46PENANAzH6hQztctH 維尼
而我,絕不可能被改變成他理想的模樣。8964 copyright protection46PENANAgkpBLrjoXA 維尼
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直至幾年後,在某商場碰見他時,8964 copyright protection46PENANAM8ROiygFRl 維尼
我們都牽著各自的伴侶。8964 copyright protection46PENANAWjbPR2Yf6i 維尼
他身穿白色毛衣,淺藍色牛仔褲,8964 copyright protection46PENANAhjVW3dnZSQ 維尼
我刻意迴避,不讓他看清,8964 copyright protection46PENANANCoAu5KqgH 維尼
看得清會痛苦,看得透會無奈。8964 copyright protection46PENANAMXjDfBifaM 維尼
這種事交給我就好。8964 copyright protection46PENANA6xPQqLemsv 維尼
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只是偶爾閒來無着之時,也會想想,8964 copyright protection46PENANAfpwiGrn0LM 維尼
那個我曾愛過的人,還好嗎?8964 copyright protection46PENANAR59GgKisgX 維尼
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