But you can ignore emotions. That happens if, for example, that other person is married or in another relationship. You can more or less control how deep your crush on someone gets. You can stop yourself before getting attached by blocking them from your life.

Listen, you are very young and the world is very big and complex. Dating in your teens is different from dting when you are in your 20s, 30s, 40s and so on. You can date, the problem is not that. The problem is trust and what it can lead to. Sometimes girls get so blinded by love that they accept whatever their boyfriends ask. That leads to kissing, touching and further on which represents the real problem. Also, jealousy, possessivenes, heartbreak, a lot of other factors that lead to drama lol It passes, don't worry. 

Teens are...hormonal. They are led by instinct and passion and rarely by reason in relationships. Just, be safe. Don't work too hard to please a boy who thinks with his lower regions and whose brain is not fully developed. If you talk to your parents, you'll see that their advice is actually good because they were teenagers once too. 

I think that's just a parent thing, mine was the same. I would personally say you probably shouldn't because it probably is unhealthy for the mind, but there are times where you might need to so 🤔

I mean you can def ignore your feelings its just kinda hard