Something about you makes me feel safe to share my vulnerabilities. Let's explore this feeling with a touch that sparks a fire and a connection that allows desires to unfold naturally?
With your ideals about this situation, I'm not going to go on about how you look great - something I normally do, but understand why people don't get it. Instead, I might just talk about how I feel around these.
Weight is really tricky for me. I have really bad eating habits, and my Grandma has a really bad habit of telling me I'm bigger or skinnier than before even though I was exactly the same before. I'm not huge or in size wise big, I just have to have a little bit of extra weight as a result of my cystic fibrosis; it's a scientific fact you will lose weight when ill. I feel really subconscious whenever I look down to my belly, and I end up thinking 'Am I overweight?' It doesn't help my dad is quite often on me about my diet.
With spots and stuff, sometimes you can't clear them, but I've just sorta... accepted it. Perhaps it's just another strange quirk of mine, but I don't really care anymore about how I look when it comes to spots - I really don't understand why though, because it's not like people have pointed it out to me. That's caused a different issue entirely for me, one that I wont talk about because it makes me uncomfortable. I literally don't care about how people look, or so I like to think; gender doesn't matter, age somewhat doesn't matter unless it's illegal, the complexion of your pigment, your sexuality, how you look, it all doesn't matter! What truly matters to me is who you are; are you kind or mean, perhaps somewhere inbetween? Sure, I do have a preference to interact with extroverts, but that's because that's all I've ever known really at least in my mind. I'm not used to interacting with people who are more introverted, but I'm beginning to realise and that's a good thing.
you are perfect just the way you are. also, you're dead right - everyone has insecurities, but no-one talks about them! i have a friend that's really good though, she'll mention an insecurity she has and i'll correct her or vice versa. it makes me feel good.
spots/pimples are temporary. there's nothing you can do - look past them, if you can. they aren't you, and they don't make you look worse - they're just hormones, you're just growing up.
Weight is always such a big thing where I grow up. Every family gathering is like “you got skinnier” or “has he eaten enough?” (I wanna punch those people in the face so bad) or whatever. And then there’s comments about other people gaining weight. Like… as long as you’re healthy, there’s nothing wrong with not being super slim or whatnot. You gotta maintain good habits and take care of your body, but allowing a treat every once in a while isn’t gonna hurt.
As for gender, I obviously can’t suggest a “label” for what you are or anything (because that’s your personal business and I’m not here to invade that) but it’s fine to explore and think about it; you don’t have to settle on a label or identity yet. If people do settle on an identity or label really on, then that’s cool, but you can take your time. Just do whatever’s gonna make you most comfortable each day.
Yes. I swear my family made comments about my stomach poking out al the time when I was like ten? Now its exactly what you mentioned. (You should punch them they deserve it) hmm yeah alrigjt! Agreed!
yeahhhh. God its so confusing. Like i look at myself in the mirror and like yeah Im a she but then it like no. thank you though i will keeep that in mind
Second of all, breakouts are normal, however obnoxious. It’ll slow down eventually.
You shouldn’t feel bad every time you look in a mirror. You are perfect. Don’t let anyone tell you different.
Hmm true!
awww thanks m
Weight is really tricky for me. I have really bad eating habits, and my Grandma has a really bad habit of telling me I'm bigger or skinnier than before even though I was exactly the same before. I'm not huge or in size wise big, I just have to have a little bit of extra weight as a result of my cystic fibrosis; it's a scientific fact you will lose weight when ill. I feel really subconscious whenever I look down to my belly, and I end up thinking 'Am I overweight?' It doesn't help my dad is quite often on me about my diet.
With spots and stuff, sometimes you can't clear them, but I've just sorta... accepted it. Perhaps it's just another strange quirk of mine, but I don't really care anymore about how I look when it comes to spots - I really don't understand why though, because it's not like people have pointed it out to me. That's caused a different issue entirely for me, one that I wont talk about because it makes me uncomfortable. I literally don't care about how people look, or so I like to think; gender doesn't matter, age somewhat doesn't matter unless it's illegal, the complexion of your pigment, your sexuality, how you look, it all doesn't matter! What truly matters to me is who you are; are you kind or mean, perhaps somewhere inbetween?
Sure, I do have a preference to interact with extroverts, but that's because that's all I've ever known really at least in my mind. I'm not used to interacting with people who are more introverted, but I'm beginning to realise and that's a good thing.
i get that feeling way too much. Not becuase of the sickness but my eating habits and stuff i seem to gain it realy easily.
dude thats an amaizng way of thinking and doing things! you shoukdnt care!
that is
spots/pimples are temporary. there's nothing you can do - look past them, if you can. they aren't you, and they don't make you look worse - they're just hormones, you're just growing up.
yeah i knowww. But people around me are always like POP THEMMMMM
As for gender, I obviously can’t suggest a “label” for what you are or anything (because that’s your personal business and I’m not here to invade that) but it’s fine to explore and think about it; you don’t have to settle on a label or identity yet. If people do settle on an identity or label really on, then that’s cool, but you can take your time. Just do whatever’s gonna make you most comfortable each day.
yeahhhh. God its so confusing. Like i look at myself in the mirror and like yeah Im a she but then it like no.
thank you though i will keeep that in mind