
十一、分岔 (序)44Please respect copyright.PENANATeVoYZjoh0
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,44Please respect copyright.PENANAfgV1lyeUmT
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:44Please respect copyright.PENANA4SPJfeJiqK
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,44Please respect copyright.PENANAdscRxi3JmA
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),44Please respect copyright.PENANACCDeHw2g4h
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:44Please respect copyright.PENANAPKJgowmqOt
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,44Please respect copyright.PENANAB0xhk6DLKl
半分苦頭也不想要」44Please respect copyright.PENANA3nJ1twwFQN
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,44Please respect copyright.PENANARIrkXjTe52
這作者恐怕不知道,44Please respect copyright.PENANASkHVAJ8VpG
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。44Please respect copyright.PENANA5suWmCR2j3
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,44Please respect copyright.PENANAqxYxIQ2Juz
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。44Please respect copyright.PENANAgMMMNHAmDp
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,44Please respect copyright.PENANAIZm78m51mz
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?44Please respect copyright.PENANAnUnLga0eHs
又或者,44Please respect copyright.PENANAmZHD226TGz
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,44Please respect copyright.PENANAzl1GfKH7V4
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?44Please respect copyright.PENANAwdWDxEU6Kt
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而且,44Please respect copyright.PENANA20G6ExKORp
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,44Please respect copyright.PENANAY4eM1UOjFO
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。44Please respect copyright.PENANAaYfaU65nEw
叫足這「三個餸」的話,44Please respect copyright.PENANA3vmtIaGpKD
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,44Please respect copyright.PENANATaiRyxWPA2
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。44Please respect copyright.PENANAs4xsFyu8b9
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,44Please respect copyright.PENANApmqrzNZxuW
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。44Please respect copyright.PENANA5qB4RsC6Ka
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,44Please respect copyright.PENANAtJrIhz05po
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。44Please respect copyright.PENANA2ed4raoQE3
但,44Please respect copyright.PENANAaUGrzy7QOv
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,44Please respect copyright.PENANAFQYpPETowP
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,44Please respect copyright.PENANAz6dzRQXH3Z
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。44Please respect copyright.PENANAslGlkpQCMO
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,44Please respect copyright.PENANAe2S9Cn0Arv
是兩個完全不同的概念。44Please respect copyright.PENANAoMO55i2cPd
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,44Please respect copyright.PENANA05nORVdu6N
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,44Please respect copyright.PENANAX4nqKIqdDV
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。44Please respect copyright.PENANAb641GjH83i
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,44Please respect copyright.PENANADy1P81zuNO
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,44Please respect copyright.PENANAKXV8D5rlBA
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。44Please respect copyright.PENANAnYRtW4Zw8H
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。44Please respect copyright.PENANAyoaZqCxKoH
除了錢,44Please respect copyright.PENANAPVfRE198gW
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,44Please respect copyright.PENANAP91kP2HXtN
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。44Please respect copyright.PENANANVHhm7SBwQ
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,44Please respect copyright.PENANAyLO7AGfsp9
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,44Please respect copyright.PENANA7tXu3CJ8Ij
感情更加要預留空間。44Please respect copyright.PENANAnQIRXbWyUE
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》44Please respect copyright.PENANAk0O1KrOch9
戀愛心理,第十一回。44Please respect copyright.PENANAdNs1cjzCjY