
十一、分岔 (序)93Please respect copyright.PENANAggX9sJrbq3
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,93Please respect copyright.PENANAMVHSGHsa6K
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:93Please respect copyright.PENANAgBANVJhV2Z
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,93Please respect copyright.PENANAxmK8Xu68c3
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),93Please respect copyright.PENANASYDXZNsirw
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:93Please respect copyright.PENANAzIeOEApsgt
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,93Please respect copyright.PENANAxTHvGxLEBf
半分苦頭也不想要」93Please respect copyright.PENANAFe0lLsN8bt
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,93Please respect copyright.PENANAgYGNtGdGOd
這作者恐怕不知道,93Please respect copyright.PENANAcHtztCuA9r
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。93Please respect copyright.PENANA18BhO7tny5
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,93Please respect copyright.PENANAyAElr6eEwq
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。93Please respect copyright.PENANAdGE0F6KKZl
93Please respect copyright.PENANAJJ7YGcvDKG
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,93Please respect copyright.PENANAkgIIP9Yl8Z
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?93Please respect copyright.PENANAUBTwIUYCJg
又或者,93Please respect copyright.PENANAmLNfNPtSrp
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,93Please respect copyright.PENANAxxBU44p37m
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?93Please respect copyright.PENANAvZv0L4FIAy
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而且,93Please respect copyright.PENANAgCZbx3baPV
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,93Please respect copyright.PENANAOx4vcjmE0k
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。93Please respect copyright.PENANAb85dsKvNTI
叫足這「三個餸」的話,93Please respect copyright.PENANAZW7AdFPoDl
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,93Please respect copyright.PENANAz5pIiDhnM6
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。93Please respect copyright.PENANA1K5om3dPwR
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,93Please respect copyright.PENANAe3pqQXniL8
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。93Please respect copyright.PENANAhrZNICRmrp
93Please respect copyright.PENANAeD9bMuNFST
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,93Please respect copyright.PENANAOReoRboPhp
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。93Please respect copyright.PENANAdFwj6drFev
但,93Please respect copyright.PENANAcgW3s2geC3
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,93Please respect copyright.PENANANilEhjkeka
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,93Please respect copyright.PENANAUa3o7Ixysw
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。93Please respect copyright.PENANALDxYgD5BZV
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,93Please respect copyright.PENANAg1Qi9ze2NP
是兩個完全不同的概念。93Please respect copyright.PENANAveHewDIy3q
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,93Please respect copyright.PENANAIduAzqArd9
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,93Please respect copyright.PENANAh5Z6PaEg5N
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。93Please respect copyright.PENANAV7bLWAgzei
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,93Please respect copyright.PENANA6DzfsyvmHz
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,93Please respect copyright.PENANAs0R0yaiaVx
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。93Please respect copyright.PENANAcugqu0XY2Q
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。93Please respect copyright.PENANAV12qxLTmfr
除了錢,93Please respect copyright.PENANAklkJbzBAtR
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,93Please respect copyright.PENANA2y7ahFJmm4
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。93Please respect copyright.PENANAmDvU6AwMp4
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,93Please respect copyright.PENANAG3Re0dQ1F5
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,93Please respect copyright.PENANAK9UAszLWD4
感情更加要預留空間。93Please respect copyright.PENANA1V3hIhUpMn
93Please respect copyright.PENANARsNHM2Ayfd
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》93Please respect copyright.PENANA41k0ukqCot
戀愛心理,第十一回。93Please respect copyright.PENANAx5mISEIxqz