
十一、分岔 (序)76Please respect copyright.PENANAOWUVBNxJUZ
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,76Please respect copyright.PENANANr8M3sPAMe
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:76Please respect copyright.PENANAuEdvGMseOg
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,76Please respect copyright.PENANANVSs2jyvVc
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),76Please respect copyright.PENANAc3ESbqfr8L
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:76Please respect copyright.PENANAgNXmNhuPjv
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,76Please respect copyright.PENANAROJQWnwlJC
半分苦頭也不想要」76Please respect copyright.PENANAZ5FFoOSS3E
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,76Please respect copyright.PENANAc5cOc0BHXV
這作者恐怕不知道,76Please respect copyright.PENANA3bB9Z6im3F
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。76Please respect copyright.PENANAfWB9Q6930v
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,76Please respect copyright.PENANARgrTyd99Pr
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。76Please respect copyright.PENANAVAbixMxaj9
76Please respect copyright.PENANAJ6kq0ymbLO
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,76Please respect copyright.PENANAK9MgZTM8cP
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?76Please respect copyright.PENANAoHz5XcaWBw
又或者,76Please respect copyright.PENANAnavQYt7oFb
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,76Please respect copyright.PENANAW668DEvm7g
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?76Please respect copyright.PENANAXlqGUMVGqe
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而且,76Please respect copyright.PENANAQktXuUWfZc
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,76Please respect copyright.PENANAZFLBoWLGes
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。76Please respect copyright.PENANABjWdLgn6Xr
叫足這「三個餸」的話,76Please respect copyright.PENANAsNrpwRyf68
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,76Please respect copyright.PENANAPMuaUxVJup
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。76Please respect copyright.PENANAs9LKNjFqBh
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,76Please respect copyright.PENANA36e0QLiFNF
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。76Please respect copyright.PENANAObtEs4Num3
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,76Please respect copyright.PENANAQ7zSthRaMK
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。76Please respect copyright.PENANAFrWLpumDpm
但,76Please respect copyright.PENANAUrDkc65VsI
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,76Please respect copyright.PENANA4cVaYWfgpN
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,76Please respect copyright.PENANALkJa2PYYXP
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。76Please respect copyright.PENANArJRSEkBWoh
76Please respect copyright.PENANAELcIoiea4M
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,76Please respect copyright.PENANAF0AhEQefec
是兩個完全不同的概念。76Please respect copyright.PENANAdNyrK4rYOS
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,76Please respect copyright.PENANAeXk5eF3ijT
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,76Please respect copyright.PENANATaqr6s8JTX
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。76Please respect copyright.PENANAlkQtkIvTGt
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,76Please respect copyright.PENANA12ANi4T0bD
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,76Please respect copyright.PENANAIgWMuW36dE
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。76Please respect copyright.PENANAIig5WEzQFR
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。76Please respect copyright.PENANAVg0qxV84BC
除了錢,76Please respect copyright.PENANAlaxLmcyrJO
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,76Please respect copyright.PENANAbbBPh6txmu
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。76Please respect copyright.PENANAVbCEByrC4G
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,76Please respect copyright.PENANAQt7pScV7u5
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,76Please respect copyright.PENANAZ72qhQklBe
感情更加要預留空間。76Please respect copyright.PENANAA1uzKYZdHP
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》76Please respect copyright.PENANAq8EHXQZqzi
戀愛心理,第十一回。76Please respect copyright.PENANAl8boYCtHMo