
68Please respect copyright.PENANAHugxs8Ug5b
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?68Please respect copyright.PENANAhEXiDhaZSK
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,68Please respect copyright.PENANAVmZKHvZDLi
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,68Please respect copyright.PENANAJLBjte2CGu
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,68Please respect copyright.PENANAMCgA3FKnME
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」68Please respect copyright.PENANA8zOLFppKY7
68Please respect copyright.PENANAPNqJsYv654
這本新作,68Please respect copyright.PENANALGhR9KFQnx
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,68Please respect copyright.PENANAjKKyr5BqJA
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,68Please respect copyright.PENANAsUochSi6KE
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。68Please respect copyright.PENANAOnWs9n5idu
這個情況要成立的前提,68Please respect copyright.PENANAAmTRqrjzd4
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,68Please respect copyright.PENANAxuscIZxjdN
作者無提及的是,68Please respect copyright.PENANAo1xTvEcmyR
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,68Please respect copyright.PENANAsOUb1vRgK7
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,68Please respect copyright.PENANAHdR6DxC24N
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。68Please respect copyright.PENANA068KTxjgWG
痛苦的根源,68Please respect copyright.PENANAY8TqEAmSic
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,68Please respect copyright.PENANA9VwFTG8il2
即「因了解而分開」,68Please respect copyright.PENANAgvUIraYPPm
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,68Please respect copyright.PENANA2zoFk7iqEh
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,68Please respect copyright.PENANAps6docUrkH
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,68Please respect copyright.PENANAjqBUP0L9KL
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。68Please respect copyright.PENANAoNjQBzOr1f
68Please respect copyright.PENANALkPLAqeRUw
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,68Please respect copyright.PENANAA4S0Bdk9oM
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,68Please respect copyright.PENANAgelDHjLgFL
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,68Please respect copyright.PENANAqhbf8Didwo
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,68Please respect copyright.PENANAenbgUtd2nM
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。68Please respect copyright.PENANAVK5TiJD4Wm
68Please respect copyright.PENANAbl3igWvmvm
有人話,68Please respect copyright.PENANADmg3qtGRWk
人到了一定年紀後會發現,68Please respect copyright.PENANA2FOP7tL6z6
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,68Please respect copyright.PENANAqpC1rXoA1F
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。68Please respect copyright.PENANA1o7Gnqiwnc
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,68Please respect copyright.PENANAz7k7OdHfCD
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,68Please respect copyright.PENANA7SUWRZ3AQk
原來是南轅北轍。68Please respect copyright.PENANAQGgToLCiVu
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,68Please respect copyright.PENANA5LyqocvaCM
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,68Please respect copyright.PENANAN3yxsiaIgc
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,68Please respect copyright.PENANAdLhyNXybKf
最終死在沼澤裡。68Please respect copyright.PENANAi45tP3fx0d
讀者們,68Please respect copyright.PENANAgcpamo1OkY
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,68Please respect copyright.PENANAhduzgjWaTh
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,68Please respect copyright.PENANAete81kawkL
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》68Please respect copyright.PENANA3ZFQpv23Ix
戀愛心理,第七回。68Please respect copyright.PENANAfUPoLW3XhO