
93Please respect copyright.PENANANPYvJNJpTM
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?93Please respect copyright.PENANAV9XSe0Av3M
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,93Please respect copyright.PENANAaz2yJEJ51V
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,93Please respect copyright.PENANAZ4GQcmwHHb
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,93Please respect copyright.PENANAAkQ3svIzyK
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」93Please respect copyright.PENANAiFEZQcg0sY
93Please respect copyright.PENANABY4155myfp
這本新作,93Please respect copyright.PENANA6lpDR3F6tx
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,93Please respect copyright.PENANAsvrGbWOD67
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,93Please respect copyright.PENANAyMfPzTxArE
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。93Please respect copyright.PENANAdbSVq1e5Nt
這個情況要成立的前提,93Please respect copyright.PENANA3jJRiFIzIC
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,93Please respect copyright.PENANAu99TTsKr4m
作者無提及的是,93Please respect copyright.PENANAnPeClCFbdu
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,93Please respect copyright.PENANAkCmKAnjsnK
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,93Please respect copyright.PENANAyta242xeva
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。93Please respect copyright.PENANAaqqU0xjfxo
痛苦的根源,93Please respect copyright.PENANAUK7KDC5CCO
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,93Please respect copyright.PENANAkXzmsbxOR1
即「因了解而分開」,93Please respect copyright.PENANAipzwIvBlN4
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,93Please respect copyright.PENANAXjtyNfYXjS
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,93Please respect copyright.PENANAyR77BRxkJE
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,93Please respect copyright.PENANAfnh4ZFHSlX
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。93Please respect copyright.PENANARU1b1ThnyK
93Please respect copyright.PENANABokB3jN9as
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,93Please respect copyright.PENANA9IXAAFDehy
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,93Please respect copyright.PENANA8ooYXtitT0
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,93Please respect copyright.PENANAv9v0fsSInt
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,93Please respect copyright.PENANAphNCyfJehU
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。93Please respect copyright.PENANAPH56QeBTRj
93Please respect copyright.PENANAF6kP41WEMQ
有人話,93Please respect copyright.PENANAmVwHB8lbVX
人到了一定年紀後會發現,93Please respect copyright.PENANAubf1cRLbmu
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,93Please respect copyright.PENANAT1JEBxlPE5
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。93Please respect copyright.PENANAoUWv81ZStF
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,93Please respect copyright.PENANABMH84K6VR6
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,93Please respect copyright.PENANA100SSNHCDT
原來是南轅北轍。93Please respect copyright.PENANA5b14ICGFJ4
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,93Please respect copyright.PENANAl4YzD9kItg
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,93Please respect copyright.PENANA3adgbMBgZE
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,93Please respect copyright.PENANA4c8UTKRFc5
最終死在沼澤裡。93Please respect copyright.PENANAGMwyB0cRgi
讀者們,93Please respect copyright.PENANAi85qDKdqN8
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,93Please respect copyright.PENANADMxHbSH6Aw
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,93Please respect copyright.PENANA06bWuYNLbj
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》93Please respect copyright.PENANAsWNY7pAvPm
戀愛心理,第七回。93Please respect copyright.PENANAekNIW7uTTy